What will you do if someone you love will say its over?

Hey just a query!! Has this ever happened to you? Well, this has happened to me. I met a girl online and we fell in love after sometime. We used to talk on phone and have long night conversations. But after a year or so, something happened with her(i would rather not say that here) but she was not allowed to talk to guys. And then on, we would hardly talk. And then one day, she finally told me, that its not possible for her to continue with the relation. this happebned almost 2 years back. I try to call her even today. the last time we had a talk was around 4-5 months back.I wont deny from the fact that i still miss her and love her but this is also true that i have moved on in life. I did not cry, neither did i take any revenge,ofcourse you dont do it to a person you love, but i just wish if we could have been together. She took her own decision to move on in life and so should i do.

I would cry but not in front of her... I would not take revenge, I will survive LOL. If you are familiar with the song 'Survivor' from Destiny's Child, I would show them that I can do better without them. It is not a revenge, it's for my own good, but they would feel it like I am taking revenge. Isn't that sweet? LOL.

I've been thru it enough before to know that I would not do revenge. I would be sad and cry for a bit. Then I would pick up the pieces and move on. You can't make someone love you and it is silly to be angry at them for not loving you.

Hi friend,By crying we cant bring back the lost love.We will only degrade ourselves.I never take revenge also.so I would think that his love is not true and I would quit happily wishing him good luck.But I would certainly regret for having a bad friend all these days.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.

hi! same thing just happened to me, well almost the same. my boyfriend and i were together for four years, i still cant believe its really over. whats more is that he found someone else just four months after the break up, and the girl is a friend of mine. i did cry my eyes out. for days, weeks, in fact i still cry.. but then again, i know i just have to move on. you cant say no, because it'll hurt more and more if you dont try to accept it. its hard, but little by little you'll move on, eventually. cry if you need to, but dont think that life is over. there's more to life that we are to see yet. we will definitely move on... and its for the best, too. also, dont try to revenge. nothing good will come out of it. after a few days or weeks, you'll realize you can be happy for him, even though its hurts so bad as of the moment. and hope that someday you'll find the right person for you.

well it all depends.. its like they say.. if you love someone you should let them go... for if they love you.. they will come back for you... it's not like you can make them stay only for your sake.. everyone has to have a choice of their own..

I would probably cry, at the most and move on. Why seek revenge, what is the point, all revenge does is throw bad karma, back at yourself. I wouldn't want that.

[i]HI nl, I will take it when it will make him happy! I know before that decision, we are trying our best already to save our relationship but if still it's not for us, I will move one although it's painful! and will wish him best also for the new journey being apart![/i]

Well first of all I will asked what is your reason to let this relationship go,or let's seat and talk and solved what ever issue. I f she insist well even I love her I will understand. I will feel bad about it,but I don't want to let her see this,cause it will be also hard on her part. I'll just leave and just kiss her for the last time. Have a nice day!

Definitely I will cry. But, I guess, I have to move on. I am not the type who forces someone to stay when he is not meant to stay.

when someone wants to leave... that means he is sure about it... If someone wants to leave you can't stop him no matter what you do. And in the first place, if he loves you, why would he think of leaving? Yes it would hurt... cry if you need it... but in the end, it will be just you handling the situation, stop him if you want to, and if he says it won't work, accept it, at least you know that you have done your part. When someone says it's over, he is sure about it... something went wrong, or something got in between... this is a sad truth that is needed to be accepted... if a person truly loves you, he will not and never come to the point of telling you its over.

Tears are surely gonna flow off my eyes and together i 'll smile that shes sucha cutie to say that and not understand my love! I would just hold her cheeks and tell her i love you babe! i know she'll push me back i'll again try and hold em till she hugs me tight! hope she wipes my tears off! if she could see em, she did never let it get over then ! sometimes it happens when the person is really angry or mad, if there's love, there's nothing else to be worried about!

all i have to do is accept it, and move on. Despite of the feeling i have for him it wouldnt matter anymore, There are things that we cant hold on forever, even married person still breaking up how much more if just a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. The most important thing in a relationship for me is not how much you love but how much you can hold on to your promises you made.

I really do appreciate it when my girl will tell the whole truth on me first than anybody else even if she wanted to end our relationship. It may not be the best of news but at least it keeps me from all the trouble of finding out for myself. This way also there is still a chance I would remain friends with her. Besides I cannot force myself to any one who doesn't want me.

Well, sometimes we have to let go of someone we love most especially if that someone does not love us anymore. Sometimes love fades away, the feeling is gone. If such incident happens to me, I would be lying that if I would say that I would not be hurt and I would not cry. But of course I will let it go. I would be a fool if I will continue to force the relationship when I know that love is no longer there.

I could cry my eyes out. I love my boyfriend so much and i couldn't imagine my life without him. We have been together for also a year and a half. So i would defiantly cry and be very depressed.