BF looks for a substitute when their GF is not around..right???

September 14, 2008 7:30am CST
now a days its common for guys to look for a substitute GF when their original girlfriends is not around..right???
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@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
17 Sep 08
I am sure there are some guys like this, but I do not think this is the norm or common by any means. At least not that I have seen.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
I think their is always an exemption to the rule. When I guy do that to her gf I think their is a problem with the relationship. When you love you have to have the patience and being sincere with your partner.I don't like to have a head ache and I do love my gf very much and I don't wanna hurt her. We based the relationship with trust. When we can't trust anymore,it's what for. Trust is earn no matter near or far. Life is so simple don't make it complicated. That's usually I tell my gf. Have a nice day!
15 Sep 08
Maybe you need to rethink having a GF. Sounds like you are not serious about your relationship if you are unable to control your urges. How do you think that would make her feel if she knew? Perhaps that she is not enough for you or worth waiting for...
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Well I can say there are some but not really all.I mean not only boys but even girls so you cannot say only boys find substitute because everyone can do that if they really want to.You can never say that it is common because we people have different thinking's so there are lots of reasons why some people do that.Well a person will not look for another person if she or he is satisfy with his or her partner.It really depends to the person so I can't say only boyfriends can only do that..:-0 God bless and have a nice day.
• Indonesia
14 Sep 08
No, it's not common although many similar cases happen. I experienced a year long distance relationship with my girlfriend who now become my wife and nothing happen; and I never thought of trying to find her substitute at that time. I'm sure many men are experienced the same too.
• India
14 Sep 08
well for this question i would say depends from person to person. its simples as this: if the guy and the girl really love each other, i dont think so this case would happen UNLESS AND UNTILL they are not faithful to each other. you cant just blame guys for this, relationship is a thing which is majorly based on trust and affection from both the sides. No trust, no affection then the relationship is a failure.
@shanemre (357)
• Saudi Arabia
14 Sep 08
definitely not. But I am not denying the fact that this things might be happening to some. I guess, this depends on the guy. Not all men are like this. Especially when there is love in a relationship, things like this cannot happen. It's a matter of trust and faithfulness. Love takes courage, and if there is no true love, either way can do this. Not all men are the same... as like my man... even if I am away.. I know in my heart and I am feeling that he is honest and loving me more and more...