do you consider her a friend?

@bombshell (11266)
Germany
September 25, 2008 2:27am CST
i have friend here in germany. last week she has vacation in Philippines and not telling me and her sister that she is going to our country.do you consider her as a friend?
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10 responses
@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
25 Sep 08
Not to good a friend or sister!
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
correct Lakota.i dont mind me,i accepted it since we are living a different island.but her sis was very upset coz there was a medicine and vitamins for their mother it would saved the payments for post.
@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
25 Sep 08
SHe should have took that with her and sure should have let her sister know
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
thats what i dont understand Lakoza.now she is in Philippines and sending sms to her sis that she in in philippines so now her sis very upset.i am sure she ruined the good company.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
26 Sep 08
No, I will not consider them as one of my friend because if they really are going they have to mentioned or in any term that they are going for vacation because here in Kuwait before we go travel we always talked to a friend if they something and if they want something for we are going in the vacation either it is in my hometown or in the other Country but we would always ask if they need something......
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
27 Sep 08
It might be one of the reason but it is so disgrace not to tell a friend that you would leave when she can still have a choice of telling them direct that i would like to bring those things that they want but I cannot because it is a problem now if I will have an excess baggage and I do not have enough money to pay for that way if that is the case......
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
her reason was surprised to her family in Philppines.but what i have dont understand is her sis not even know this.
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
27 Sep 08
It is so nice to make a good surprise to our family back home in the Philippines but the thing I do not understand is that the Sister is with her or it is also in the Philippines because if it is in the Philippines then it is part of the plan to give them full of surprise.......
@ailema4ever (2675)
• Finland
25 Sep 08
Did you ask her why she didn't say it? Maybe she has her own reasons. One friend of mine did that to me once and when I found out, I asked her why. Apparently she was seeing a guy in our former city and she wasn't ready to tell me about it just yet. She wanted to keep her privacy. We had a fight because of that, but now we've sorted things out.
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
not ye coz i know it since last week.she told me last year if she has a vacation it will be a surprised.but why even her sis she did not even inform it?strange i guess.
• Finland
25 Sep 08
Yes, it's strange, but you'll never know why people do something unless they tell you. I know a friend of mine once said that it'd be so much fun (according to her) that she'd tell everybody that she was married only after she eloped with him...so she wouldn't share her wedding plans and all that. Different people, different way of thinking.
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
25 Sep 08
[i]Hi bombshell, hahaha..that is funny! I wonder why? maybe she doesn't like any one to asked some favor from her..LOL! Well, if she is my friend, I will be disappointed especially if she knows I am from the Philippines too and having trips or vacations are exciting topic to shared with good friends! I will talked to her and listen to her side![/i]
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
he che,yeah somhow i got her points but even her sis did not know that she is going.anyway last year she said to me that she will have a vacation but its a surprised when?but its ok for me since her parents live in Camiguin and i am from Bohol i understand that but her sister also did not know about it.
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• United States
25 Sep 08
hahaha....She is very funny..Even to her Sister? I wonder why? and I wonder what she said to her parents! LOL! Anyway, there are really people whom we can't understand....sometimes, strange and unpredictable!
• India
27 Sep 08
It depends on the nature nand coordination with her
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
hmmmmm
@ronaldinu (12440)
• Malta
27 Sep 08
Did she forgot to tell you? Maybe ti came out of her mind? Why do you think she did not want to tell you that she is going to Philippines?
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
i dont know but she said soemthing if she is going to Philippines its a surprise.
@youless (94397)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Sep 08
Sure, why not? Perhaps your Germany friend won't to bother you by telling that her sister will be going to your country. She may think you have to spend time to show her sister around etc. It may not be convenient to you. So she keeps it silently. I love China
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
27 Sep 08
she can keep it silentlly forever.we dont bother her anymore.she is one of the annoying one who calls us every sunday and talk by hours and that what she did to all her filipina friends?
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I would not consider that to be much of a close friend at all. she should have at least told you something about it before leaving.
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
26 Sep 08
i agree but even her sis dont even know it.thanks for the response.
@littleowl (7157)
25 Sep 08
Hi bombshell..yes I would still call her a friend to me it wouldn't matter if one of my friends from oversea came to my country there may be a personal reason eg holiday, or to visit family I am sure the reason she hasn't told you isn't meant to offend you so wouldn't really worry about it a long as you both still keep in contact thats really all that matters..littleowl
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
yeah i got misscalled.i dont mind in my case but her sis was calling me that her sis its strange.her sis should have vitamins and medicine for their mother but hmmm i dont know whats going on on her brain.i thought the more you get older the more you get wiser.
@se7enthbird (8327)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
i am not good in telling a person if she/he is a good friend or not. i myself dont have a lot of friends. but considering that they will go to the philippines without you knowing it. i can say that they or she does not consider you as a close friend. maybe a friend friend only but not a close one. my wife has a lot of friends and girls having girl friends... thats what they do. they get so excited on what they want to do or they are dong that even some of her friends are abroad they still have this communication that they know everything on whats happening with the girls.
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
25 Sep 08
we are very close each other .we even have lots of time here but i am wondering whats going on,she did not even tell here sis also in germany that she is going,strange huh.