How many ( bad ) habits you have?

India
October 1, 2008 7:23am CST
Dear Friends! I have some bad habits like Drinks and smoke. And I don't think that all are bad. but my mother and lover are warned me to leave that habits within one month ( before my marriage - coming 24th november my family planned to my marriage). How can i leave that. I am so like cigaret. and one comedy, my one of uncle heared about my bad habits and he can't believe that. he advised to my lover like '' Don't raise any rumour like this about him. i know very well about his personality. Still now he follows his child mind'' salute to my uncle. any i am ready to enjoy my life in last one month. happy mylotting, stargroup29.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
all my habits are bad because what's the use of keeping doing those if they aren't bad for me or the person i want to annoy? lol!
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• India
1 Oct 08
:-)
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
I admit i have of bad habits or the also known as mannerisms like eating my nails which i started to avoid. laugh out loud in the public which my mother told me to changed or to lessen my voice. And many more. But i guess in your case you better avoid those bad habbits of yours coz' its not good to your health. I am saying that you have to avoid it instantly but in a step by step process. Hope you get my point. Your mother and your partner are right you really need to change it coz' you will be getting married soon and maybe a parents (definitely). So wont let your kids see you doing those bad habits so that they may not do the same. Happy posting!
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• India
1 Oct 08
I can understand my position. you're correct, my lover is ready to join with me and i am n the situation of living for her. Thanks for your advices. i will obey your thoughts. happy posting!
@kean28 (226)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
i guess i have all the bad habits i could ever have... i am a hard smoker, i drink a lot almost everyday and i eat too much in a day...i don't know how and when started to be like this but i sure know its a bad habit and something should be done..i must stop before i kill myself but its hard...
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• India
1 Oct 08
you are correct. actually we are killing ourself via the habits. but eating a lot is very health. but don't allow a fat body. enjoy your life! bye.
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
Hi there stargroup29... Seems like you are new here on mylot,welcome then... I have a long list for that... LOLs... I admit I have a lot of bad habits that are really hard to break. I opt to myself that I'll stop doing those things since it affects my personality as well as my growth as a person. But still, I find them hard to resist. Those habits are really into me, I have tried saying good bye but temptation halts me from doing so... I think having a bad habit is not bad at all... It does make you feel happy and contented right? So for me, Cheers to bad habits!
• India
1 Oct 08
I will try to leave all bad habits. i am expecting the same words from you!
• United States
2 Oct 08
I think I have a bad habit of singing out loud. Sometimes, I'll just break into a song, or just makeup one off the top of my head. I don't do it as much as I used to now, but I still do it for sure. I also have a bad habit of saying stuff like "Oh God" "Sweet Jesus" "Lord help me" "Lord have mercy". lol. I do it all the time. It can be for any situation, if somethings wrong, shocking, annoying, bothersome...I'll say it. I said "Oh Lord help me Jesus" once when I was doing cust serv. work, and I didn't mean to. lol. And the lady was like well that's the right person to call on. lol. That's when I knew it had just gotten out of control.
• India
3 Oct 08
That's funny :-) the singing is not a bad habit!
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
1 Oct 08
i don't smoke and drink but i have some no many bad habits as i don't organize my things and i don't always try to speak the truth and i sometimes get carried away.. and so many more
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• India
1 Oct 08
From my angle, the drinking and smoking is the very bad habits for a man. because it will totally kill. and onething! like to speak thruth is not a bad habit ya! keep it!
@sunilkonda (1215)
• India
2 Oct 08
Yes dear friend it will be hard for you to leave your habits at once.For me i loved eating,drinking access tea so overeating,over drinking tea is my bad habit.Sometime i think i will stop my habit but i can't.Because of overeating my stomach become like rubber tube very big day by day so still i am trying to control little bit.If once u decide yourself to control your habit then you can do it slowly slowly.You may be feeling bad about your mother word but your mother care for you that's why she is worried for your future.All the best.
@jdowens (42)
• United States
2 Oct 08
You lover and mother are right stop your bad habits. Your effecting their lives as well as yours. Most people think this is my life and I do as I please. This type of thinking is very selfish. One other thought come to people mind is if they love me they will accept you I am and what I do. This is not the case. Anyone that tells you to do something that going to better your quality of life are the ones who loves.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
2 Oct 08
my bad habits are i sleep too late, stuck on the computer, sometimes until the morning light hours, which is not good. also, i snack after 7pm sometimes. and that is not good either. i eat too much bread, which is fattening. i need to eat it less.
@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
2 Oct 08
I have many bad habits, but don't smoke nor do I drink to excess. Hopefully, since you recognize the habits as bad, you will deal with them in your own time and hopefully they will not affect your relationships in the meantime.
• China
2 Oct 08
i'm lazy, i'm not patient, i'm shame, not open enough. i don 't like to slick up, i don't like to make friend with those who are not cultural, so that my communication curcirl is very limited. maybe i have more bad habit, but i don't know until others tell me. it says, others' eyes are mirror, it can tell you what you are. i hope i'm clear about my bad habit and can correct it soon.
• United States
4 Oct 08
Smoking and drinking have never been a problem for me. My bad habit is eating too much ice cream and potato chips which adversely effects my blood pressure. None of my near relatives was ever much of a drinker, but both my grandfathers, my father and my brother have all been smokers. I know from watching them that it's a really hard habit to break. Good luck in your efforts.
• China
2 Oct 08
eat too much and others
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
Dear friend, I have a very bad habit...You know what i want to go to my office to work during holidays even if i don't have salary..According to my friends I am abusing myself...But i know im not abusing it i love going to my office because i am inlove with my work...I know somebody will tell me that it is not a bad habit but for me it is......
@stylioJ (403)
• United States
1 Oct 08
Oh, yeah. I've got some bad habits...the problem is, I enjoy them! I drink too much and I talk too much for sure. Then I don't sleep enough!
• China
1 Oct 08
I have been fortunate that my father does not smoke or drinks .Of course,I do not like men smoking or drinking which hurt their bodies and harm those around.What your family and lover do is for your healty,so please leave that habits for those people who love you.