Follow up on my fiance might be cheating...
By tlb0822
@tlb0822 (1410)
United States
October 3, 2008 11:43am CST
So I think i may have jumped the gun on thinking that my fiance is cheating on me. I couldn't find any real hard evidence. So I have something up my sleeve that if he is doing anything I will know about it. My mom told me about it, and I have found that it does work really well. So I am just now waiting to see what happens. I want to thank everyone for their support, and advice. I will keep the updates on what I find out. And believe me, if I find that he is cheating, I am going to drop him. I don't think that anyone deserves to be cheated on. How would you find out if your spouse was cheating? Any extra advice?
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3 responses
@1111appleblossoms (169)
• Canada
3 Oct 08
It's hard to trust someone in a relationship, especially for people who have been cheated on before. I think if people want to cheat they shouldn't be involved in a relationship. It's not fair to the other person. If they aren't happy they could move on but be honest and tell them first.
I'm curious about what your mom told you to do to find out? It might come in handy sometime...
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@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
4 Oct 08
I have been cheated on before...and I won't stand for it again. I don't want to be the left alone, and treated like crap. That's why I have become my own detective. Sometimes you need to check on your territory lol. I have the website that you need. I don't want to post the details on here so add me to your friends and I will send it in a message. Happy Mylotting.
@lovemygirls2503 (431)
• United States
3 Oct 08
Just wondering what your mom told you that could help you find out if your man is cheating on you. I figured it might help my sister and I if we every think that ours is if you don't mind me asking. Happy Mylotting!!!!
@lovemygirls2503 (431)
• United States
3 Oct 08
Ok I have added you as my friend. Happy Mylotting!!!!
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 08
Do not act hastily. Men are men and they like to fool around with no strings attached. If you have caught your partner in bed with other women you might have good reasons to leave him and if he is not responsible or no longer cares for you then it is wise to go. There is no point hanging on to a person who is a cheater, if you can proof he is.
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
4 Oct 08
Yeah... I'm not jumping to conclusions yet. I am investigating though. I am no dumby.. and the more information I know, the easier it will be if I have to make a decision on this relationship. For now it is just little stuff. Like him adding an ex to his profile, and looking at her profile. So I am just gonna sit back and watch. Then if he does do something at leat I will know about it.
