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These statistics do not surprise me at all. Most want what they cannot have. Many people get bored within their relationships and look elsewhere. Not saying this is a good thing, just stating this as a fact of life, and at times life sucks! I know first hand.

I don't find any of my neighbors particularly attractive. But then I'm not married. But when I was married, I didn't find any of my neighbors attractive. Maybe I need to move to a more attractive part of town. LOL

I'm taking this literally. I mean, it's possible, and it's not necessarily a bad thing. It's possible that a woman can love her husband, not want anyone else, think he's the most wonderful man in the world - and simply feel that another man is more physically attractive. And, same thing for men and their wives. Finding someone more physically attractive isn't automatically a sign of being dissatisfied with your spouse. So, when I looked at this discussion, I didn't see it as 72.3% of the husbands wanted other women or that 68% of the wives wanted other men. Maybe that's what some of them were saying, others may simply have been giving an opinion on a very minor detail - looks.

hi tousif This is called "animal instinct"... more than "Human nature" ... If you have a cow in meadow... he will walk further and further away from where you are .. because what he sees, is the grass at the other end looking fresher and greener ... but from the point you are standing you see the grass is the same everywhere the moral is : You cant help this people, it has to be their own nature, if you are lucky, you may find the right person ... who loves you madly and looks at you with the eye which sees only 'satisfaction' .. If a man or woman, look at another individual with more "lust" than "love" it is animal enigma ... wish you the best to find love not lust cheers