i can understand why so many stay in a abusive relationship now

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i can understand now why so many people end up back in a abusive relationship or never leave in the first place. it really is sad. my tenant, great friend, and neighbor is going through it. she finally kicked him out about 2 weeks ago or so. he calls all teh time. threatens her. drives up and down the road. they have a son who is mentally handicaped. he took the kid with no meds then brought him back a few days later with bruises all over his back side and a busted nose. she has called the cops. she has got restraining oreders, protective orders, went to the domestic voilence place everything. still he runs up and down the road, calling, threatening. she is scared and no one will help her. they say they will but when the catch up to him they never arrest him. he has warrents out too. its crazy. i dont understand. me and my husband have called on him. he came over to her house which is our place and starting threatening her. he tore up the yard with his truck and we pressed charges for destrusction and told them he is not allowed on our property here and still he continues and thy wont do anything. they talk about all this help and leave them if it happens to you and dont be one of the numbers get out. she does it and there is no help from the cops or anything. she has us but what are we. we can not make him stop. our great gvt at work. our great justice system hahaha. this is a nightmare. i can really understand now though when women or a man even states they cant get out.