Is it okay?...I want to know!

@jstmarfz (1498)
United States
October 16, 2008 8:58am CST
Yesterday, I noticed that the 4 year old boy that I babysit is drinking coffee with his dad. He has his own one cup of coffee. I was amazed because I never thought a 4 year old boy is allowed to drink coffee which all we knew that coffee has caffeine. Well, I guess its not that bad for him to have coffee. But I am really curious because I have known lot of parents doesn't allowe their kids to have coffee even a sip or even to have softdrinks. What do you think about that? Is it really okay for kids to have coffee? I want to know! Thanks
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@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
According to research, it may not be that harmful. So that means that you can't really be careless about it. A child's caffeine consumption should be closely monitored. It is safe when consumed in moderation but may affect a child's nutrition. The child might end up eating less because caffeine acts as appetite-suppressant. It may be restricted because it isn't needed for child's nutrition anyway. Check this out: http://chevroncars.com/learn/food-recipes/coffee-children There are a lot of answers you can find on the web. :) So the key for this is moderation but then it isn't really important in a child's nutrition.
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@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Hi thyme! thanks for sharing the site! that's really informative
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
Sure. No problem. I hope you've found a solution. ;)
@tonytt2009 (1706)
• China
16 Oct 08
Well,I don't think it's good for kid or child under 12 years old to have coffee.One of the reason is the caffeine just like you mentioned.As we know that caffeine is a central nervous system stimulant, having the effect of temporarily warding off drowsiness and restoring alertness.For that little kids,it's no use to ward something,or say it may change the personality of kids if they have the effect of caffeine in a long round.For other reason,being stimulant by coffee,it may have the negative effect on growing of kids;further,it wards off the absord of calcuim and thus infect the grwoth of kids' bones.In all,the negative sides of drinking coffee for these little kids seem count less~just take care if you'll or you're doing so~~happy lotting~
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@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Hello! Thanks for sharing your thoughts about this topic! Happy mylotting too!!
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
really? if you ask me he is too young to drink coffee!!hehehe i wonder why his dad let him drink coffee.. my mother didnt allow me to drink coffee until i was in highschool.. then i learn to love it.. i am a great coffee drinker.. i dont want it very strong but i really love coffe big time.. when i have my own kids, i wont let them drink coffee until they reach highschool too.
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
hehehe.. my mom is a great coffe lover that's why i learned to love coffee at a younger age.. we would often have coffee together in the afternoon and just talk over the coffee table about anything..hehe it's like coffee bonding time!
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
ei.. if you dont mind me asking what's marfz? well, my friends would sometimes call me marfz too because my last name is marfa!:)
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Lol. same here. I used to love coffee when I reached in the age of 23..hehe I was influenced by my husband which is coffee lover
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
Coffee and softdrinks have caffeine. The thing here is, kids needs to sleep longer than adults do. Caffeine is a stimulant. Kids might not sleep well if they regularly drink coffee. Their growth would not be that much. Kids can drink coffee but then they need to sleep.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Yeah coffee cause of being sleepless that's why lot of people taking it if they feel sleepy. Thank you for shariing!
• United States
17 Oct 08
I just wanted to say that they stunted growth theory is not true. I have been drinking coffee since I was 5. I am almost 6 ft. tall. If it did stunt my growth I am so thankful. LOL!! Another thing that I wanted to add is that I have a son with ADHD, I have taken him off all the medications and modified our diets a little bit. For the most part he doesn't need his medication anymore but what I have noticed is that a litte coffee now and then seems to slow him down.
@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
16 Oct 08
well I guess as long as his parents dont mind that he gets hyper it dosent really matter. Studies show that in adults anway a certain ammount of coffee actually prevents heart problems. If the kid is drinking more than a cup though it could be a problem. most kids I know dont actually drink a whole cup though they just sip on it for a while and that's it.
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
yes i am agree with you, coffee is not that harmful unless it is too much. but you know when i am pregnant i do not drink coffee, coz they say it is not good for the baby, and of course my baby is inside me and i dont want her to have any defects mental or physical, thats why i dont drink. but my two years old baby sometime drink coffe to my mothers cup, it is OK, that is not too much, and also he drink a lot water and fruit juices more.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
17 Oct 08
When my oldest child was only 2, I had a babysitter who frequently gave him a small cup of coffee. At first, I was unsettled agout this at first, but she assured me that it was only something she gave him once in a while, and when she did give him coffee, she added a lot of milk to it and only enough coffee to change to the color a bit. It made him feel big and he seemed to enjoy this special moment with her. As a matter of fact, he is now 11 and still occassionally talks about drinking coffee with this woman. I don't think it should be made into a normal routine for any child to ingest a lot of caffeine, but I don't think there is harm in allowing it once in a while. I know of several cases where parents have given their child a cup of coffee to help relieve constipation. I have also done this, and it works.
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
when i was young, we really drink coffee (brewed coffee) we dont buy instant coffee because on that time money is too much hard to earn, if we dont have coffee even what so called rice coffee is the one that we drink. it is also use if there is someone having stomach ache.
@JUNGLE (1157)
• South Africa
16 Oct 08
I think that this child should not drink coffee at all,as coffee is bad even for adults.
@calyxus (825)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
its not that bad for adults if you take it moderately, the body also need caffeine in order to function well; in situations that need us alert and not dozing like at work, we need to sip coffee. But i dont think the father is responsible enough to let his kid take coffee.
@Mare73 (1335)
• United States
17 Oct 08
I let me kids drink coffee and they've drank coffee since I'd say 3-4 years. They are now 15, 10 and 6. For us, it's a culture thing. Heck I was drinking coffee since I was a kid. I only let them drink coffee on either Saturday or Sunday. It's their treat. Shoot they both (the 10 and 6) know how to make a pot of coffee. I think if the child is monitored, it's ok. I give them more milk than coffee in their cup. I don't think it's a big deal.
• United States
17 Oct 08
There is a such a thing as decaff (caffeine free) coffee so maybe the little boy had that kind. Also, coffee (even regular coffee) is not always bad for a child, For example, my oldest child has ADHD. I don't like giving him the medication for that all the time because I have heard so many bad side effects about it. I asked his doctors if there were any alternatives to the medicine and his doctor suggested giving him a cup of coffee. The doctor went on to explain that ADHD medicine, such as adderall, rittlin, etc. our, in themselves, stimulints. Stimulints actually conteract hyperactivity in an overly hyper child. Sort of like when you get a flu shot or vaccine of any kind, they actually inject you with the virus. Otherwise, I don't think it's as harmful as some people believe. I myself drank coffee quite a bit as a child and so did a lot of other people I know and it never harmed us. Most anything, consumed in moderation is not harmful. Maybe this little boy only has a cup of coffee once in a while and not often, if so, that would not be harmful.
• Indonesia
16 Oct 08
wow, what a dad! that's not ok at all to allow or inspire a 4 year old boy to drink coffee. even we are adult is not recommended to drink coffee. the caffeine will be to strong to the kid. i myself cannot bear coffee. drinking a glass of coffee in the day makes me not sleeping the whole night, my head sick and my heart beating faster. i don't think the boy asked for the coffee. i think his dad which is too crazy and irresponsible for his son's health. you better suggest him not to give coffee to his son.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Well the dad is a doctor and the mom is a nurse. I was just wondering if its okay or maybe because the kids asked for it. I am not sure. But thanks for sharing!
@stryker5 (52)
• United States
17 Oct 08
Here is one website that may answer your questions. www.chevroncars.com/learn/food-recipes/coffee-children
@shrestha1 (123)
• Nepal
29 Oct 08
actually i dun know much about such kind of stuffs den also i think this is not gud that a four old boy drinking coffee i a whole cup bye
@rainmark (4302)
27 Oct 08
Hi there, coffee is not good for the little boy. But you know, my son he is having a little cup of tea instead of coffee. Coz everytime we having a coffee he wanted it too so my husband give him a small amount of tea, not too much coz it maybe be bad. Happy posting.
• Malaysia
17 Oct 08
Hi Jstmarfz, for me, i will not allow my little princess (she is 2 years old now) to drink even a sip of coffee, because i really scare about the caffeine impact towards them. Even i didn't find any related article on what are the impact but base on parents and people's advice, is better not to let them drink. Thus my choice is still NO COFFEE to my little kid.
@jhartana (1084)
• Australia
17 Oct 08
His dad should have not allowed his young son to drink a cup of coffee. It's really not good for the boy either because the coffee contains caffeine and this won't be healty or any benefits. I drank coke since I was 8 years old but only very small allowance.
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
When i was young, i also drink coffee, my grandmother give me a coffee and i drink it. i think it is not bad for a child to drink coffee unless it is too much. the coffee i drink when i was child is that what so called here as 'kapeng barako" which is purely coffee and add sugar to have taste, if we dont have that coffe, then my grandmother get some rice and place it in caserole and let it cook until it turns black then she add water, and then we place some sugar, and that will be our coffee.
@Gorzata (182)
• Poland
17 Oct 08
there are some types of coffee that have almost no caffeine, if the boy likes the taste of it, well, and if it's a milked coffee, and if he driks occasionally, it wouldn't do him any harm; all those sweets flavored & colored are more a harm to the boy's health
• Indonesia
16 Oct 08
An old belief in my culture said that a teaspoon of coffee can prevent a little child (below 5 years old) from having a sudden overheat when he/she got fever. But only a teaspoon of coffee not a cup and not everyday.
• Indonesia
16 Oct 08
An old belief in my culture said that a little bit of coffee (i.e.:a teaspoon)can prevent a little child (below 5 years) from having a sudden overheat when he/she got fever. But only a teaspoon of coffee not a cup and not everyday.
• United States
17 Oct 08
I think it is fine for kids to drink coffee.. well mine atleast was trying it around 5 or so. He didnt like it but i am always wanting him to try new things.