What have your parents taught you that you still find so valuable?

@CJay77 (4438)
Australia
October 19, 2008 1:23pm CST
My parents always told me when I was young to not start talking in the middle of adult conversations and now as an adult if some people are talking I wait for them to finish before I'd say something! But if I do interrupt them I'd say excuse me first. They also taught me to always say thank you and not to be rude with people. Also to respect and help others when I can! These are some good lessons that I still remember to this day and will pass to my children as well. What were you taught as a child by your parents that you are most grateful for learning?
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@agrant10 (1476)
• United States
19 Oct 08
Well, I guess that I could write a book on this subject. I was raised by my grandparents and they instiled a lot of great things in me. The first is good manner; they would always tell me good manners will take you a long way. Take pride in yourself and your work. Always be willing to lend a helping hand. Leave this world a little better than you found it. These are just a few.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
19 Oct 08
Hi agrant10! Welcome to mylot and I hope that you will have a lot of fun here . Maybe you should write a book on this, it will be interesting! I'm sure I will get a copy. Its true agrant good manners will take us a long way and the best thing of it, is we can also pass on to our children. Wow, I like the last part that your grand parents taught you, reading it gives me goosebumps. Thank you so much for sharing.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
20 Oct 08
Your most welcome.
@agrant10 (1476)
• United States
19 Oct 08
thank you
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 08
there are 2 things I always remember from my parents, especially my father's taught me. Honor and righteousness. I always remember that he told me something that shocked me back then. He said that being kind is not always being right. The thing that I have to do is being right, bot being kind. Sometimes you have to be cruel, cruel to people, cruel to yourself, if that's the right thing to do. Honor, is something that I have to hold still. I shall not depend to other people, I shall not afraid to people. I have to hold my honor, the family honor. My honor as a woman, my honor as a person. That's all. That's what I do now, or at least that's what I am trying to do now :)
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
22 Oct 08
I guess its true that being nice or kind are not good all the time! Maybe sometimes it depends on the situation! I'm happy for you that your still hold onto honor that your father taught you and I'm sure it is important for us to have our honor. Thanks for sharing klaudine.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 08
Oh yeah... you're welcome, CJay. It is indeed very difficult since it is something that I usually forget when I was in the difficult situation, but still... I have show my parents that they were teaching me right, and I should be able to show them that I can do that. I can be their pride, so that I am trying, until now :)
@SViswan (12051)
• India
22 Oct 08
Though there are lots of things that my parents have taught me and helped me be a better person....the most important one I can think of (that I am grateful for) is to take life head on. I'm always ready to take on any of life's challenges and be strong in times of adversity. They've also taught me to be honest....first to myself and then to others.
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
22 Oct 08
I admire those people who are always ready to take any challenges that comes in their lives. I would love to think that I'm strong person but there are time that I find it hard to deal with my challenges. Honesty is one the best taught from our parents that we can pass on to our children. Thank you for sharing.
@ms1323 (259)
• United States
23 Oct 08
Three things: Whatever you are going to do, do it right the first time. I find that to be very valuable to me as an adult on many levels. Taking pride in your work instills a great work ethic, which I find many people lack these days so I am very grateful for that lesson. Respect other people's property. If it's not yours, don't touch it - unless given permission. I see kids walk on other people's lawn, touch random cars, take something that is not theirs...whatever they want to do, they do it without regard for the person that actually owns it. One of my sons friends thinks it's perfectly OK for him to come over and destroy toys & throw things over the fence, when I know for a fact that behavior is not tolerated in his own home. If you want it - earn it. These days parents overindulge their kids, as a consequence, they believe they are ENTITLED to everything. Whatever happend to earning and saving your own money to buy something that you really want?
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
24 Oct 08
Hi ms1323! Doing the right thing it is very valuable attitude for us to have as an adult and to teach or pass on to our children. And I agree that we should respect others property and also to earn the respect if we want others to respect us. And I think that children attitude or behavior is depending with their parents. Thank you for sharing.
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@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
24 Oct 08
MY parents taught me that if i am ashame of a thing,i should not do that.Which is pratically right.If you are not proud of doing a certain thing that you are about to do,better not do it,so in the end you will not be ashame of that act.My parents also taught me not to speak if i dont have any good thing to say.I fin this really true and helpful.When two of your bosses are fighting,and you are asked for an opinion,better not speak if you dont have anything good to say.PArents are really helpful in life.I will also teach my childrens these things that i have learned from my parents.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
25 Oct 08
Hi JOIE! If we did something that we regret or be ashame of it, at least we can also learn from it. I agree that if we have nothing good to say, we better be just quiet. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
24 Oct 08
My parents taught me how to value education so much. I really did my best to study until college. I'm working right now and I always tell my siblings about this great lesson I learned from mom and dad. This is something that other people can't take away from you.
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
24 Oct 08
Hi cutie! Welcome to mylot I agree that education is very important for everybody and thats nice that you share that good taught to your siblings. Thanks for the response
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
19 Oct 08
I was taught that if you don't have anything good to say, not to say anything at all. I wished I had a dollar for every time my mom said that. I wouldn't be rich by no means, but I would have a bit of a savings account. LOL I believe my mom raised me with great values and treat other people as I wished to be treated. Even to this day, if I was to say something that she did not think was polite, I think she would still correct me. I am glad to say I am still learning from my mom. She is an amazing lady. I hope that I can be respected as much as she is when I get her age. Interesting discussion, thanks for starting it. Have a great day!
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
19 Oct 08
Hi kykidd! I agree with that if we don't have anything to say, just keep quiet, and I also do this! That is good that you have a bit savings now. Just keep saving and one day it will be alot. I do believe that we should treat other the way we wanted to be treated and thats very nice of your mom that she still correcting you if your impolite. I'm sure that you will be respected like your mom just follow all the good taught from her and be yourself. Thanks for sharing and you have a nice day.
• India
19 Oct 08
hi They taught me a good and useful lesson that to respect every human being irrespective of caste, creed, religion and social status. Later on this lesson, in my professional life, returned a rich dividend. I still follow that lesson and i guess i have been able to pass on this lesson to my children too.
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
19 Oct 08
Hi tapnaroy12! Yes that is a very good attitude you have and its very good to pass on to your children as well. It is a shame that so many people do not think this way actually! Thanks for the response.