your criteria for selection of the life partner

@juhi06 (1850)
India
October 25, 2008 1:37pm CST
hi dear friends , each one of us selects and finally settles down with the life partner!! what criteria one should adopt to select the partner? what is your top eligibility criteria? how will you select your life partner?
11 responses
@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
26 Oct 08
For me the person should love me and understand me more than myself and respect and love my family the way i will love his family...Being a true and genuine person with a nice subtle sense of humour would be great..other additional qualities will be bonus! have a nice day!
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
31 Oct 08
hi dear arthi_88 have you met your dream man yet?
@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
31 Oct 08
Yup my best friend turned boyfriend is someone I love but he obviously doesn't satisfy all the criterias yet I love him! Have a ncie day!
• United States
25 Oct 08
he has to be smart, have a good sense of humor, a good communicator, generous with affection, honest, he has to be a good friend to many, he has to be my friend too, hard working, faithful, he has to have a backbone... wait a minute, i'm actually describing my husband here. this nothing but a biased response to this silly question. of course there are no criteria. just if the shoe fits, i'd wear it, and if it really feels so good that i want to be my best when im on it, then i would like to keep it for a lifetime and stick with until it wears out and wears away. its a great life indeed!
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
3 Nov 08
thanks dear jinglebee for your response you are happy since are lucky to have it already !! and it was for those who were still in the race for their life parter!! thanks for sharing whatever you did!!
@kkanaka (886)
• Singapore
3 Nov 08
should be loving, caring, attentive, truthful and of course all the good qualities which we expect from our life partner...
@shav9292 (928)
• India
31 Oct 08
frankly speaking ....i grew up in a family where there are a lot of family problems and i love my parents so much..so i cant imagine my wife and parents fighting. my priority for the quality in my life partner would be the ability to adjust with the family and being a good wife and a great daughter in law.
• India
31 Oct 08
I am already married and i did not choose my life partner. It was arranged. I was very apprehensive about it. But when i got to know him i found my soulmate. i find it pretty strange but it is true. All the best.
@moneymaya (901)
• India
6 Nov 08
for your reply I want to give you an story for you , please don't mind becuase its just an story .. A man was searching a girl for marry and he started his search with a long list of qualities and he start his searching and one by one he go for lots of girl and finally got tired one of his firend asked from his that man what type of girl are you looking for the man reply I am looking for a 'Complete girl' and then his friend again asked , so didn't you get a complete Girl, that man reply Yes! I got her then friend again asked him that then what is the problem man why did you got marry with her , man reply that She was also looking for Complete man . I hope you got that what the motto of stories ......
@quinnkl (1667)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Honesty, humor, generosity, caring, and commitment. I am tired of selfish, lying people who just say what people want to hear and then do things totally differently as it suits them. Putting others BEFORE yourself would be a good way to be.
25 Oct 08
Hi juhi06, No matter how you pick and choose, if you fall in love, everything goes out the window and you end up marrying them, all this picking and choosing don't work. Tamara
@savypat (20216)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Can he be my best friend,stick with me through thick and thin, protect and care for our children and does he have clean habits?
@Erin88 (348)
• United States
29 Oct 08
He would be someone I can trust, someone kind, loving, loyal, who knows how to laugh. He would be someone who has a positive outlook on life and loves kids. I don't know if that describes many people, but I continue to look.
• India
25 Oct 08
He should be a bit dark,tall,strong and well built with a good voice and mousch is a must All these are the extra features that I require.. Basically he should be a true gentleman with clean habits. He should fight a lot with me and we should make love for each other. He shud trust me,understand and love me more than anyone else I guess every thing comes under this.. He he he.. Just my expectations.Waiting for my man to come riding in his horse and carry me with him!!