Do YOU find it Easy to Get Rid of things or Do YOU Cling to Clutter?

Philippines
October 28, 2008 2:48am CST
I find it hard to get rid of things on the chance that I may need it someday in the future so I guess that brings me to the side that clings to clutter....:( People say that if you haven't used something in a while, get rid of it because there is a greater chance you won't be using it if you keep it. I'm not talking of prized mementos or stuff you intentionally keep for sentimental reasons, I'm curious to find why it's so hard to say goodbye to things you haven't used in many years. Do I echo phrases like "It's perfectly good yet, I can't give that away!" or "We might need it one day." Have you opened your cabinets lately only to find a couple or so of those gifts that you've received that you may never need or use that you still keep as you feel it may hurt the "giver's" feelings if you gave it away? Honestly, my mom is a "clinger" herself so I come by it with great determination to change. How about you?
4 responses
• Singapore
28 Oct 08
I always try to get rid of things whenever I can. I live with clingers around me and if I do the same, my house is going to look like junk! When it comes to clothes, I give away those that I don't wear anymore. I always think that there are others who is in need of them more than me. It is easier to part with your things that way. My hubby clings to all his clothes, when I told him I'm collecting clothes for donation, he comes back with a single piece of T-shirt. He's got tonnes of them, and he seldom uses most of them. I get so frustrated! There was once I threw away a bunch of pens which had no ink anymore. He told me that those were given to him by his father. I said it's taking up space and I though he doesn't really like his father, anyway. I just can't live with so much things lying around. I may do something drastic with my hubby things. I have had about enough! No offence to you, momforwork! I think clingers can't live with ridders.
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Hi SydneyHazelton... Of course, I take no offence! Tough I think ridders are meant for clingers or at least that's how I see mother nature balances life. My husband is a ridder and I think with all my heart that he is meant for me....ahhh!!! ;) Perhaps you are meant for your husband! Do not feel frustrated, clingers may also see their errs and may silently appreciate your ways too. Thank you for sharing... Happy mylotting...
• Singapore
30 Oct 08
Hi momforwork, I believe in that balance in a relationship too. clingers and ridders have to find a middle road to work things out. Thank you for the BR! Really appreciate it.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
28 Oct 08
For the most part, I am pretty good at getting rid of things. My down-fall in this is clothes. I have a bunch of clothes that no longer fit me, but I just cannot get rid of them yet. I am trying to lose weight, and seeing these clothes makes my goal more real to me.
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Hi lynnemg... You go girl!!! Perhaps if you hang a particular dress you love and would like to fit back into, on a clothes hook that is visible everyday, this reminder will take you on a better pace. I applaud you for your efforts so far...go, go, go. The clothes can eventually go to charity or something when you've reached your goal...right? Thank you for sharing...happy mylotting...
@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Well, it's not that I cling to clutter. But I like keeping papers with important information in case I'll need it in the future. It always happens to me that when I finally need something, I've already thrown it out. So as long as I think I need I'll keep it around. I just hate throwing things that can can still be used. I won't recylce it either because that's just disposing your trash responsibly. My mom hates that my room is cluttered with pieces of paper haha.
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Hi mimico... Yes I see your point. There are important papers one can't simply get rid off. Also some that at some point may not be necessary but you'll end up needing and it's gone! So I guess bins of paper or some box would be better than pieces of paper cluttered in the room...just a suggestion...hahaha...thanks for sharing! Happy mylotting...
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Oh... I am not a clinger! I have the habit of giving away all stuff that I don't use anymore. I have given away so many clothes, bags, and shoes and even furniture and appliances that are still in good condition. Sometimes my son would chide me "Mommy why are you giving those things away...those are so expensive or those are gifts from so and so...are you not treasuring them?" But no amount of chiding could prevent me from giving away. I hate seeing my cabinet cluttered with stuffs not of use anymore. Why not let others make use of my extras. I also don't like to see unused furniture or appliance just gathering dust. I want more free spaces at home so it is so easy for me to give out or throw away. My son said I don't give importance to sentimental value. Ha!ha!ha! Maybe in a way, he is right! I can't deny that. But my hubby is also not a clinger so I have an ally in him!
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
Hi friend.... I have slowly accepted my errs at being a clinger and have seen its disadvantages first hand with my mom. I have been dedicated to reform and am proud to say a regular donor to a goodwill organization. My cabinets are less cluttered now and the storage room is now accepting house guests...I've converted it into a guest room to avoid the possibility of storing in it again...hehehe. I truly see my husband as a driving force as I'd hate to push him to his limits as far as my clinging is concerned. He says he'd rather not mind at all if my clinging needs were diverted on him...;) Thanks for sharing my friend... Happy mylotting and see you around...