Is the marriage the end of your decisions? if u r not happy would you end it?

October 28, 2008 6:43am CST
I've heard people and movies saying once u r married...u r married. There's no going back, u should compromise, adjust bend , mend but never end it. what would you do or you have done when this happens to you??
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5 responses
• Jamaica
29 Oct 08
No! the marriage is not the end, you need to do a self examination to see you are the problem first.Or if you know what is causing the unhappiness and it can be work out find, if not the alternative is prayer.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
29 Oct 08
i am single, but if i was married, i would try to make it work until the end, unless it is really that bad and needs to be ended right away before someone is harmed.
@SultanaH (80)
• Hungary
28 Oct 08
Divorce is not only expensive it also very messy when you have children from the marriage. You practically have to start over with your new life. What ever happens in life,even if one has to face a divorce, one just need to "handle it". Life goes on.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I do believe in the sanctity of marriage. Although I have been married twice I have learned about what compromising and patience is all about. I am with my second husband now. You have to have forbearance and share with your spouse and communication is key. Sometimes you do need to bend a little but it always takes two people for a marriage to work out right. Sometimes there are extenuating circumstance where a marriage might need to come to an end. Other then that I believe that you need to work things out together.
@taripres (1499)
• United States
28 Oct 08
Experience proves a good answer! Most of us has tried to work the marriage out, marriage is suppose to be forever! But due to this divorce trend, like that's the new fad, people marrying and divorcing like they're changing clothes, is making it too easy to divorce! People are divorcing over the smallest things. Some of us who understands this arrangement, try, but learn u can't be married by yourself, so the last result after exhausted efforts is, divorce! Taripre$