How to make a GF

India
October 30, 2008 8:39am CST
Hi, I am a student in high school. Lately I have been thinking of making a girl friend. She studies in my school and I have been thinking to start a talk with her. But due to various circumstances I have not been able to do the same. Few of them are: I am too shy. Don't know how to start talking. What to talk her? when to talk to her? I am really scared. But I have a gut feeling that she also wants to talk to me. We have exchanged a many glances. Pleas help me.. I really need help
4 responses
@kedves (728)
30 Oct 08
hi the simplest ways are sometimes the best. just walk up to her say hi how are you my names .... and take it from there :) good luck.
• India
30 Oct 08
You know, I have tried that and thought about it. But I just can't. I am scared..I don't know why
@kedves (728)
30 Oct 08
what is worse your fear of doing the simple way or the thought you can lose this girl and may never have a chance with her ? decide which worries you more. and you know if you face your fear head on you will find there was nothing to be scared about. fear is there to be beaten always face it head on :) good luck
@rea_02 (49)
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
If you really like that girl well why not talk to her but it doesn't mean that you are going to say 'oh, hi.. you know what I like you, I want you to be my girlfriend' i'ts not like that. You just try to approach her in the nicest way that you know, you don't have to look like a very impressive man. Just be yourself and be friendly to her. You also need to be in timing in approaching her, make sure that she is not busy or you are not going to interrupt her. Have a perpect timing in approaching her. If you really feel shy..overcome that!! Nothing will happen to you if your not going to go out of your shell. So get out of that! Don't be shy..!
• India
31 Oct 08
thanks you man, I will try what you said..
@taripres (1499)
• United States
30 Oct 08
Dude, not sure what ur shy about? But pay attention! She's human, she breathes, she speaks, she thinks, she sleeps, she takes showers, she eats, she puts clothes on, she uses the bathroom, she bleeds, the exact same thing u do! So what's the problem? There are more women than men, the sooner u realize that, it'll be much easier. The worst she can say is no, ur not going to die! If so, move on to the next chick. Simple as that; now go say hi to this chick, introduce yourself and stop thinking girlfriend, that's your mistake!!!! Think, introduction, get her name, friends before anything! Go from there, how do u meet male friends? Same thing, just add some flirting! Taripre$
@nishant5 (50)
• India
31 Oct 08
Go to her ask shake hand and introduce yourself and ask how are you what do u like and such that and talk her regularly