Can you imagine anything sexier?

The way she holds herself and/or the look in her eyes, especially when she's looking at me, but sexiness is not necessarily the most important thing in a partner. In a mistress, absolutely. Sexiness is an attitude which those who have it can't help showing in their body language - they are comfortable with their bodies. When they are aware of it, or feel it about you, then it also shows in the eyes. I love a quote from "The Alchemy of Ecstasy" (Douglas and Slinger): "The most natural aphrodisiac for a man is a beautiful woman, passionately asking to be enjoyed". Lash

Ok for me it is not so much a visual thing but a feeling, the chemistry. I have seen men who are attractive to me but I do not see them as sexy. For me I like a man who is confident, masculine, likes to be in control but is also romantic and sensual. All these qualities are in the aura, the persona of a man and they be reflected in the eyes, the bearing, the way he relates to you. Yes my partner has all these things which is why I have never ever considered anyone else and I knew the moment we met that he was perfect for me.

Well let's see, the husband is caucasian, with blue eyes, and since I rather have a thing for brown eyes, there's one thing he doesn't have! :-)

The way the person moves and carries themselves. Either male or female. The way they look at the other person. If you are finding things you need elsewhere you may want to look at this very seriously. Is there a problem in the relationship?

The sexiest thing I find is a woman is her attitude. If she is very beautiful but is a "touch me not" type, her beauty does not impress me. If she is ordinary looking but has a fantastic friendly outlook, she is a sexy person. But if she is beautiful and is also having an endearing attitude she is the sexiest person.

I think men with that devious look about them are sexy. I'm not talking about the obvious "I dress like a rebel, so I must be one" type...moreso the type that has the mischievous grin, which starts at the corners of the mouth and spreads all the way up to a sly look in their eyes...so quick, that if you weren't paying attention, you wouldn't know they were upto no good.... BTW...eyes are definitely the first thing I notice about a man...the more unusual, the better.