are you friends with your Ex's?

Philippines
November 5, 2008 1:35am CST
I just want to know that if you have the guts to be friend to your exes i mean ex- boyfriend/ girlfriend, ex-husband/ wife? I think for me, no chance to be remember my past and I don't want to lie to myself that I still want to be friends to my exes, that's horrible for me!! Hehe!!
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@sudalunts (5526)
• United States
6 Nov 08
I have a son, so I am cordial with my ex if I were to see him. I do not have any contact with him, I think the last time I saw him was nine years ago. I do not believe in remaining friends with an ex. I feel the reason we are ex's is because something was done to me that was hurtful, therefore, I no longer want to have anything else to do with them. My husband on the other hand, still is contact with his ex. My husband is the type of person, who wants everyone to like him. Even though she treated him like dirt, he still wants to remain friends with her, I do not see the point in it, but that is the way he is.
• Malaysia
5 Nov 08
i try to be friends with my ex's although we don't really keep in touch as often. but i wouldnt want to lose a friend just because a relationship failed. maybe if we can't be lovers then we're better off as friends. but i guess it would be hard if the breakup was bad though, but i've never encountered that before.
@iamcdy (1120)
• Philippines
5 Nov 08
Hmmm... Actually, I tried to accept the friendship that my ex-boyfriend offered me. But at the end, it still didn't work. We both have our own relationships now but he seems to be just the "old" him, thinking and feeling that I am still his girlfriend. He is still immature and self-centered, and I don't have time for people like that. I guess, I just wasted my time in trying to be friends with him. So my final answer is - NO WAY!
@zhaychel (610)
• United Arab Emirates
5 Nov 08
No, because I regret the moments that I was with them. We knew each others' number but I don't text or call them, I even erased their numbers when I was deleting unused contacts in my phone. Their friends, in behalf of them, are the ones asking how am I and what is happening with my life. I don't want to see them or remember the because I don't have fond memories with them. ^^,
@Kmarie923 (875)
• United States
5 Nov 08
I am still friends with my ex-boyfriend. I still really care about him. We just broke up because I wasn't really feeling the chemistry. I try not to talk to him too much though because he does still love me and I try not to lead him on. Plus my new boyfriend gets extremely jealous.