hi, how dependent are you on oyur parents/ welcome
By qwe123
@qwe123 (253)
China
November 8, 2008 9:31pm CST
a new survey in nanjing shows that most young people born after the 1980s depend heavily on their parents when buying homes
some of the young home buyers on parents for down payment
do you think it is a good idea to depend on your parents for home buying?
how reliant are you on your parents/
ina country where family ties are considered very important
what is an appropriate distance between parents and children?
parents i know little about this topic
it depends on different ideas or custom of the family sonethimes whether close ot not how to held a correnctdisaster
sounds difficult here i share a new story just happen to me
i play ball gmeaes witha friend this sunday
after that we civisited a friends o him
i knew that person some years ago
he now buys new big house and bmw himself
id o o not think i could affford my parents a better matterail life like that
i do not have a better matterial lifethat
i s do not have to buya house as i am just a rookle
i do not nderstand them really i wounder how to make a beter disaster and relationship with them in futuer
as a question first whether we need buy house or not
second may we afford all the price without partens support?
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4 responses
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
9 Nov 08
I have to say that my parents have enough on their plate without having to try to help me out financially. They do all they possibly can, but for the most part, I try to take care of things myself, and I would never ask them to co-sign for a loan for me. We are a very close family, but we do respect certain boundaries.
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@abyin007 (426)
• India
9 Nov 08
you are quiet right.. because in older days people always go for earning.. they where less educated.. but now even though they are educated they are just going after there parents. but i cant say all only less. usually the parents have to teach them how to be self reliant
@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 08
Since young, I already have this concept - once we started working, we have to take care of our parents. Even though my parents are still richer than me, we have to give them some money (as allowance) every month, just to show our care and responsibility. Ever since I started working, when I go out with my parents, I try to pay for the bills too. I just think it's my responsibility to do so. Well, perhaps I was born just before 1980. 
But I did borrow money from my dad for the down payment of my house, I couldn't afford to pay the down payment. and I am sure going to return the money to him once I've got enough money to do so.
But I did borrow money from my dad for the down payment of my house, I couldn't afford to pay the down payment. and I am sure going to return the money to him once I've got enough money to do so. @ankitnewton98 (96)
• India
9 Nov 08
Hmmm........... talking about dependency on my parents , I think I have come a long way from being dependent on my parents to a totally independent guy. Now I go to a college. I arrange for all my monetary requirements including my fees and lodging all by myself. I have hardly even visited my home in the past 4 years. I think now I am a guy who can very well survive in this world of intense competition all by myself.
