how do you manage if there are two people loves you?

Philippines
November 9, 2008 3:16am CST
my friend have two GF, both of his GF are really love my friend, as the day, week, month passed away my friend realize, he cannot now carry the cheat that he have right now, in his situation who would you choose? the GF1 that 9 months now in their relation or the GF2 are now 8 months this comming 25? who woud you choose? GF1 or GF2? lol...
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
That is really a hard question to answer. but he is right about his realization that he could not maintain the two and has to choose one that is most dear to his heart. I think this will make his conscience clear and happy by doing this to himself. I guess that will also be fair for the one that he will let go since the girl doesn't deserved to be treated like that at all.
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
i don't know also his realization is very true, and yeah he should choose the most dearest to his heart, co'z someday will come that only one girl in every man...
@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
well if i were in his shoes, he will chose whoever makes his day happiest... but then again , i can sense that if he chose any of the two, he will not be happy anymore because when he chose say GF1.. when they will be together, he can remember GF2 and still felt guilty about it. Pray tell, if he felt guilty now that he has 2 Gf at same time...i can say that he will just prepare himself for the ultimate consequence.. and that is losing both of his GF. It's always 1+1 =0.
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
your so right there will be a possibility that 2 of his GF are loose at the same time, and the karma to come along,lol, you know that until now my friend keep on his 2 GF coz he cannot choose and decide because of confusions..lol
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
Talking about that two girlfriends,for me it will depends on your friend's decision because he is the only person knows his feelings towards with his two girlfriends. He is the only one could tell where he prefer to give his full attention. It's his conscience that bother him because of what he have done with his two GF. It is not easy to have commitment if you yourself don't know how to take it seriously and honestly because you cannot feel happiness together with your loved ones if you are hiding some lies with them and cheating them. So,its better to choose only one of them and theres a say that you cannot do things at the same time and referring that about love you cannot have two girlfriends at the same time.Your friend should make a decision and he should be firm with it even if there is a person would sacrifice and get hurt. Pains are always counterpart when it comes about loving someone. More power to you friend and may God bless you and your friend.
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
thank you for your concern, i'll make sure my friend read your response, and god bless also.