what do women want

@sisco100 (2345)
United States
November 12, 2008 2:19pm CST
its an age old question. what do women want in a partner? are there certin things that you look for or do not care? what would be the ideal partner for you? what would you do if you found this person? are looks really important to you or is it the personality that makes the differece for you.
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@ellie333 (21029)
12 Nov 08
Hi Sisco I am a woman myself and haven't a clue LOL but I do think the film Mel Gibson stars in 'What Women Want' is hilariously funny and also very apt at times. I do know that personality and how a guy treats me is far more importat than looks any day. Huggles. Ellie :D
@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
13 Nov 08
ya that was a funny movie. i have to say after seeing that movie i still didn't understand what women wanted. it was more related to selling things to women more then there personal needs in a relationship. it was still a good movie. so why don't you know what you want in a partner? do you not care what kind of guy you get? i understand that you want a guy that treats you good, but there has to be more then that.
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• Philippines
13 Nov 08
Every small details count, what I mean is men don't have to give us very expensive gift (but that would also be great. added points ^_^ )in order for us to be happy, by just saying i love you out of nowhere or receiving a note or a flower without occassion just melts our hearts.
@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
13 Nov 08
ya i have to agree with you on that, i don't think that expensive gift really mean that you care about the person. i think that showing you love and respect for a women is some times the only thing that is need. so are there certain qualities that you look for in a partner? are looks important to you or not?
• China
13 Nov 08
women want to be loved and want u know her love u.
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@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
13 Nov 08
ya i know that, some men want the same thing. its there anything else that you would say that you would like form men? i know that love is important, but are there qualities that you would look for in a guy?
• Malaysia
13 Nov 08
To me, I want a partner who is understanding. He must be a good listener, because I hate a person who only talks a lot but never listens. He must also be a good friend, to whom I can share ideas with, and he also must be able to contribute his own ideas to me. I like a guy who can make major decisions in life. I want to feel safe. A guy who is brave and able to make wise decisions in major events of life makes me feel very safe when I am around him. I don't like men who orders me around. I won't do it if a man gives order to me. He must ask me politely if he wants to ask me to do anything. If I found this type of guy, I think I will admire him in my heart only. I am already married and therefore I will never leave my husband for another man, even though he is my dream man.
@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
13 Nov 08
wow, its sounds like you know exactly what you want and need. its a good things to beable to know. i'm glad to hear that you found your dream man.
@sacmom (14315)
• United States
12 Nov 08
I can't speak for all women, but I know I wanted a guy that was honest and loving. Looks helped, but at the same time it wasn't important. The most important qualities for me are the first two I already listed.
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@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
13 Nov 08
it seem that a lot of women out there seem to want the same basic things. its good to know that they all have two things in common. ya i have to agree with you about the looks, they do help but aren't really important. no one can keep their looks forever so your going to have to learn to love the person for more then their looks.
12 Nov 08
From my (limited) experience with women, I would say that what women want is to be treated as an individual, not a generic female. Every one is different. :)
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@sisco100 (2345)
• United States
13 Nov 08
that is very true. most women out there wants to be treat like an object or a peace of meat. there are the few who have been raised to think that its a normal thing and that's all they really are.
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
12 Nov 08
He should be sensitive towards my feelings, gives me respect, love, we should have open communication, and he must satisfy me in bed LOL
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• United States
12 Nov 08
What a hard question lol, I tend to seperate ideal from reality. My ideal partner is handsom, nice body, intelligent, loving, kind, manly with a bit of senistivity and compassion, educated with great work ethic. Sexy, intimate, and a man of God. but in all reality, I want someone who is honest and has a good heart. Looks are not important because you can have a good lookin person who treats you bad, there is a big difference between love and infatuation and I want a true man of the heart. give me a good personality, love, honesty, God fearing the rest will fall in to place sooner or later...LOL
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@celticeagle (118587)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Nov 08
Communication and observation early on in a relationship would answeer this for you. Women want to be taken care of,respected and adored. Looks aren't that important if there is true feeling. Personality and confidence in himself makes a man attractive in his own way.