Single parenting

United States
November 7, 2006 6:24pm CST
What is the hardest part about being a single parent? I have a 3-yo boy and he keeps me so busy... what do you all think? SHOUT OUT to all the single parents out there!
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@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
8 Nov 06
That's a tough one. I ended up single after my first 2 kids. I was lucky and had wonderful parents that helped with everything. Now, I have an almost 1 year old, my fiancee is an OTR truck driver currently-not home much, and mom & dad are an hour away. I'm going back to work($$ is getting real tight lol)and I'm stressing over daycare. I don't mind it, but I want to get back to being a police officer, and have no clue what shift I'll be stuck with, nights would be perfect, but no guarantees. But I'm just worried if I don't get an overnight shift how I'll work out daycare. I think daycare and money issues are probably the number one problems for single parents.
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• United States
8 Nov 06
Daycare is a tough subject too! Who can you trust your children with these days? I'm too picky for their own good! Being a police woman is a very respectable job! Keep up the hard work!
@sabrinam (1203)
• United States
12 Nov 06
Daycare is a huge dilemma but I've found that you get what you pay for, La Petite is the best daycare my son has ever been in, even the church daycares aren't always that great.
• United States
8 Nov 06
i have a 4 year old that i have been raising on my own, then i have a 3 month old with my current boyfriend. i think the hardest part of being a single parent is just getting a chance to take a deep breathe now and then. that is why i love mommy time!!
• United States
8 Nov 06
You sound like a very busy mama! That is two votes for a few more hours in the day! Thanks for posting...
• United States
8 Nov 06
Having time to yourselve. That is the hardest part to me but, I love my children so I wouldn't trade it for the world. God Bless
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• United States
8 Nov 06
I know, by the time the children are in bed, there is time for a few chores then I'm off to bed too! What I wouldn't do for a few more hours in the day! Thanks for posting! God Bless you too!
8 Nov 06
Hi I am a single parent and i have 2 children, my youngest is 6 and my eldest is 8. I think that i find it hard when sometimes i grow to be frustrated and i have no one that i can turn to about the way that i feel. I find it a struggle to balance working because i have to pay the bills But i will say that i have a fantastic support system around me that helps me alot so i am able to go out and work. I find it hard when i dont know the answer to something that the children have asked me But to be honest i love being a single parent as i am so close to my children. I would not change the time that i have with them for the world
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• United States
8 Nov 06
Ahhh... the never ending worry about bills... I know what you are saying. If you need someone to talk to, there are a million of us single parents out there that you can turn to for support. Enjoy your children and give them an extra hug before you tuck them in to bed *from a friend in cyber-space* They sound like they have the best mommy ever! STAY STRONG!
@Aeval39 (773)
• United States
8 Nov 06
My mom's a single mom.. she never married my dad. So she's been raising me alone for 19 years and I turned out just fine. It's really hard work, kudos and good luck to you.
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• United States
8 Nov 06
Tell your mom how much you appreciate everything she's done for you... if you already have, tell her again! She'll love to hear it! Thanks for posting!
• United States
12 Nov 06
my sister is a single mom and she gives her kids the world. she ony has one job bt if they need anything she'll spend her last to get it.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
8 Nov 06
The thing to remember is knowing when to ask for help. I was a single mom a while back, I am happily married now, but I remember what it is like. I had to learn when to ask for help.
@sabrinam (1203)
• United States
12 Nov 06
The hardest part of being a single parent is no support in the discipline. There's no breaks, there's no time off. You are mom and dad. You have to be soft and hard, and provider and nurturer, it's so hard, and the only reason I got through and my son is good, is because I read Dare to Discipline, he would be a heathen otherwise. I was skeptical at first, but that's a good book and makes total sense. Old book but still effective, people rave about how good my son is, and that's how it should be, he's not bruised or beaten either, consistency is key.