What should i do to continue my relationship????

Bangladesh
November 19, 2008 3:40pm CST
I have a relation with a pretty young girl.I like her very very much.She also like me.But some days we are in problem to understand each other.It seems she doesn't want to understand me.What should i do now???Plz help me to overcome this problem.
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5 responses
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
Oh, sounds familiar,lol!what you need to do is to talk, there's no other way or solution to misunderstanding but open communication. Explain to your girlfriend that she must understand your position, try to be open minded also, i think in any relationship it is always a two traffic lane, why did you say she won't understand you?maybe there are some cases that is not acceptable to your girlfriend, so you better talk to each other. Love is not only the basis in any relationship, you can't go on loving each other with only love as the main ingredient. Genuine love is composed of mutual trust and respect. Try to analyze the behavior of your girlfriend, is she respecting you as a person and trusting you as her boyfriend?if none of the above is happening in your relationship then think a million times. But if your misunderstanding is rooted on some issues about lack of communication, you better make your move and talk to her, make it clear that you need some understanding in her part too.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
I t6hink you just to understand her more cause she's younger then you. To work on a relationship you have to have alot of patience. Are you just starting? Maybe your just getting to know each other more. It's very hard to tell her this or that so what I can advice you only is listen to her first her reasons, now if you want your own way well explain or elaborate to her more so she can understand your reasons or even your ideas. Have a nice day!
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
Well in a relationship you have to understand that you have this ups and downs in a relationship. One thing that you and her to understand in a relationship to work you should always compromise of what each and everyone would like to achieve in your relationship. It should not always be one sided but rather meet things over half-way where both of you would agree on certain issues.
• Malaysia
19 Nov 08
In every relationship, there needs to be a few elements. Communication, trust, passion, compromise, understanding. You need to trust your partner, if not there shouldn't even be a relationship, because without trust, either one of you will be insecure with each other and it will ruin a relationship. And there obviously must be passion in a relationship, because without it, it will be stale or you guys would just end up being best friends. But communication is key. Without it, you will not understand the person you are with. You both need to share what is on your minds and hearts, let your guard down. Talk. Express how you feel about certain things, talk about things that bother you, things that she does that you like as well. Then both of you will slowly learn more about each other's likes and dislikes, fears and then accomodate it, and help with it and compromise with each other so that there will be understanding and then also no fights with each other. Take your time if you cannot. And give her time if she cannot as well. Get her in a quiet place where both of you can talk, and then remember when she talks, listen. don't cut her off. Let her finish, and she would also need to do the same. If you both don't talk, you won't understand each other.
@BubblyIan (750)
19 Nov 08
If everyone thinks she is a pretty girl then she will know this and be challenging you. Don't react and just get on with it. enjoy your time whilst you are there, but remember - easy come easy go. if she only has to smile to get a man she is unlikely to value any of you. She will keep you only as long as it suits her. Don;t react to her games and you may survive longer than most, but don;t retaliate either - rise above it and ou may find that you are treated with respect for not reacting like all the other men! Best of luck - and post a picture of her for the rest of us unlucky mortals!