I am missing someone

@mayka123 (16584)
India
November 21, 2008 4:56am CST
Why is it that when I loose a friend I feel I have lost a part of myself Why is it that when a relationship breaks I feel that a limb is broken and I am handicapped Why do I feel so lost sometimes and am on the lookout for him Why does this emptiness in me just remind me how much I miss him Now there is no more to say Just hope and pray That he will come back to me one day
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Nov 08
Missing you Missing is sad Missing is sweet Missing is killing Missing is an eye opener Missing is revealing Missing is painful Missing is love Missing is life Missing is living Love mimpi...
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
Love U Mimpi
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Nov 08
Thanks Vikas. And love you too Mayka. And trust me, there are so many people who like you, love you and you have no clue....it could be anyone right from the little boy who sells you vegetables to the colleague whom you think is grouchy over you always to some infamously man down south who spends his time thinking about you but doesn't know how to express ! You never know....that's the beauty of love and life. Happy living.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
Thanks a lot Mimpi. Am missing You too.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
21 Nov 08
Hi dear I hope, your hope will take place in one day I hope, your pray will accomplish in one day I would like to join with you and share your sorrows I may add that hope for the best, but prepare for the worst Best of Luck and Have a Nice time.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Nov 08
Ok dear, you want the good party only. Doesn't matter, I am with you.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
Thanks a lot for your wishes. Only want to hope for the best now. Do not want to think of the worst.
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@busyB4 (874)
• United States
21 Nov 08
It sounds like you value your friendship or relationship a whole lot and that is why you feel the deeper loss. I tend to do the same. I hope things will either work out if that is for the best, but if not that you can move on and not become bitter to do so again! God bless you!
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@moondancer (7433)
• United States
21 Nov 08
It is very hard to lose someone. But as they say times does heal. Get out and go do things, get involved in things to do outside the home and it will help ease the pain and eventually it will be so small you will not notice it much or at all.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
2 Dec 08
Its true that when you get used to someone's presence around you it is difficult when that person disappears from your life. But in time then one gets used to the absense. And then later the absence is not noticed at all.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 08
Hi Mayka its natural feeling when u are attached to some one and get used to of him/her then sure if they felt apart, its just like missing some part or haveing some space inside ur self. A Vaccum which cant be filled. But trust me if u were sincere or sincere and have faith, then he will be back wish u all the best
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
21 Nov 08
wish u all the best if u r sincere then it can be temporary not permanent
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
I too hope it is just temporary
@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
I think I was sincere in my friendship......just hope that things will be okay soon. Thanks a lot for your wishes.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
21 Nov 08
this sounds like romance. If it is you may never stop missing this friend. But with time you will remember only the good times and they will be sweet memories. Be thankful for the time you had and the things you learned from the relationship. Enjoy your pain, it means you are alive and can feel not everyone can. Blessings
@mayka123 (16584)
• India
2 Dec 08
Missing someone could not always mean romance. Sometimes you have a relationship with someone who could be your soulmate but romance would not be there in the relationship. At times when we get used to someone's presence we cannot bear when they are away from us for even a short time. I am happy my friend is now back and things are okay.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
21 Nov 08
Hi mayka..Ironically this is one painful lesson that life teaches us.We always tend to take things for granted and its only when we lose someone or something ,we begin to realise the true value of it.We tend to lose a dear friend or a relationship when some temporary emotion in our weak moment blind our senses and break away a beautiful friensdhip or relationship. Later we begin to feel the vaccum and the pain.But you should always try to take a chance and try to patch up for what you have done,in one emotionally weak moment,by eating humble pie and apologising to that person and making amends.A true friend,will immediately retaliate and come back to you.If not,you should realise that when one door closes,there are others waiting to be opened,and move on ahead.....
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
It is true that when one door closes then there are others waiting to be opened but have just realized that I do not want to close this door........
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
21 Nov 08
Ha ha..I am glad I could open your eyes.........Then you know what to do..Go ahead,and if you need my help I am at your service,ma'am.......good luck.....
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
25 Nov 08
actually mayka,i am missing you too.i didnot see any of your discussions and i thought maybe you took a break.but the fact was actually i was not online for a week.i had to go visiting my in-laws.i had to come to your homepage for your new discussions.have a nice day.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Nov 08
Its because you value friendship in true sense. otherwise it could have been never possible.it is very natural you are feeling so lost without any one of those friends. but time is the best healer
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
I think when we get too emotionally attached to someone even a little distance could mean a lot. I hope that things get well soon.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
26 Nov 08
Be optimistic, you would find one day, what you are looking for. We should think positive and direct our energies towards our goals only, hopefully when we direct our entire wisdom and energies towards our goal, we may be able to achieve it one day. We also live on 'Hope', is not it?
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
21 Nov 08
Is this a poem or something real in your life my friend mayka? It is so heartfelt and if its a poem then you are indeed talented in that area. I pray with you that one of this fine days you will have him back. Have a nice and worry-free day.
@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
This is a poem written by me expressing what I am feeling just now. Was missing a very good friend and these words came from the bottom of my heart. I hope things would be okay soon.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
21 Nov 08
you sound so sad. i am so sorry for your loss. i know u don't think so right now but sometimes it's for the best if it is not they'll be back. just look around & see all the blessing you have. i know they want replace the friend but i'm sure u like me have alot to be thankful for. i know where u are coming from, been there, done that,
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
26 Nov 08
When one gets very attached to someone it hurts to loose that friendship. Especially when it is someone with whom you have shard a lot of your feelings and pains.
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
21 Nov 08
Hello Mayka,when you develop a relationship with someone,a parent, a boy or girlfriend or anyone else you start getting attached to them.This attachment grows so much that you feel that you cannot live without seeing or talking or meeting that person everyday.If the person responds equally then that relationship can develop into a beautiful one and make your life wonderful.But what happens if this person loses interest in you or because of some reason goes away? Then you feel a great shock, you feel miserable for days, you even lose interest in living.This is all due to the attachment for the person which developed in course of time. If you want to lead a happy life you must not develop attachment to anybody or anything. because attachment leads to possesiveness which in turn leads to jealousy if that person shows less interest in you and more in someone else or leads to pain of seperation if that person abruptly leaves you for someone else.so try to lead an unattached life and you will never have to suffer.LOL.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
26 Nov 08
I would not want to lead an unattached life. Life is all about gaining and loosing. Just because we fall down once does not mean we will stop walking for the fear of falling. If someone breaks our heart we will either try to make amends or else forget the past and make new friends. Life is all about living and loving.
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
21 Nov 08
That's so sad to hear, Mayka. I hope your friend does come back to you soon to fill the emptiness. Bless.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
21 Nov 08
Thanks a lot for your wishes. Hope all is well with you.
• China
21 Nov 08
We always couldn't forget our old friends,maybe someone we couldn't meet forever,but the happy time is still in our lives,never disappear.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
26 Nov 08
We could always remember the good times we have shared together. Better friends may later come our way.
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
Its hard, isnt it? Especially when it seems that they are not missing you at all or maybe missing someone else.. Perhaps we are just too attached to our friends and when it seems that they dont want anything to do with you anymore it would seem like you lost something that is already a part of your life.. On the lookout for maybe a chance to get together sometime again like old times sake? or you just dont want to let go of the closeness that you've shared.. then again, maybe its just you who sees things that way.. Perhaps he ignited the sense of 'living' in your life and now that he's gone, the emptiness that was somehow gone when he's around, has now returned which would make you think of him and how much you miss him. Perhaps. All I can say is that: Perhaps..
@nini89 (670)
• India
22 Nov 08
Hi friend! Even i feel I am missing someone. I have missed one of my good friend who always with me. All this had happened bcoz of my friends commanding words which sometime irritates me. I hoe my friend will understand and will join very soon. All the best that whom you miss be blessed by the god that you get him soon. Happy mylotting and have nice weekend.
• India
22 Nov 08
aww hope u feel better soon!
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@candyorc (20)
• China
22 Nov 08
I think you should let him konw how much you miss him. Why don't you have a talk with him. Maybe he has the same feel as you. So that is a pity if you are still care about each other and you break your relationship. And I belive there's some misunderstanding, he cares about you the same as you do and he'd like to be a friend of you forever.
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@Couch08 (36)
• United States
22 Nov 08
That is because you learn to like and love your friend as your family or a part of your life. So when they are going to say goodbye or betrayed, you will felt bad and hurt.
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• China
22 Nov 08
e-mail him and say you miss him why u looes him? u hurt him,right? if it's ture, u can apologized to him for your mistake. i think he will be back good luck!
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