if you where unhappy can you still make people happy?

Philippines
November 21, 2008 9:55am CST
can you do that make them happy even if you where sad or not felling well? i do sometimes it does happen very rare and i used to make people happy are those younger than me and this are kids. i make then happy to paid up my sadness. and you ? can you do the same that i do? have you done this before making people happy even if you where sad or not felling well?
4 responses
@wanyit (59)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 08
Depends on the situation.. but meanwhile if my friend call me and telling about he/her sadness, I will still try to make he/her happy. Sometimes when you can help someone happy... it may directly make yourself happy!
• France
27 Nov 08
Yes i can do this, because i switch off from my problems. It makes me feel happy again if i no i've helped someone else with there problems
5 Dec 08
It depends because sometimes some people I knew or met are sad when I am not feeling well, and when they can see my eyes that I am stress or sad it affected to them. And yes I made some people happy too even I wasn't feeling weel just because of giving them a smile or by being sarcastic or jokes. I always likes to smile to anybody to share or make them happy it's worth it when you can see them smiling back at you or they are happy.
@candytang (341)
• China
3 Dec 08
I think sometimes I can .If I could control my feeling that's real nothing for me though I am unhappy .I like smiling and always smile to everyone . As we all human beings ,that we all have emotions ,sometimes happy ,sometimes sad ,sometimes feeling blue and so on .But how to make other people happy when you are unhappy ? I think this is really difficult for us to do it as my experience ,for I can say no matter I am smiling to others ,I know that I'm in fact sad and my heart rainy.
@Kumaresan (450)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 08
well, it depends on the situation... if our friends need help, we should help them even though we sad or depressed... because in that way also, we might gain some sastification over that and that might lead us to make ourselves a bit easier and controlled... but some people can't do this because when they sad, they won't talk to anyone else because they really can't do it... so as i said, it depends on the situation and also mood... if you can deal with if while you're sad, then sure you have a great set of mind...