What to do when feeling lonely?

@ajithlal (14569)
India
November 26, 2008 12:53am CST
I am feeling very lonely and sad at this time. What should I do?
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17 responses
@Iliaaz (357)
• Malaysia
26 Nov 08
Hi there, When I feel lonely, I will get bored. When I get bored, I will feel sleepy. When I feel sleepy, I will fall in sleep. That's what I am gonna do. Happy responding, and commenting.
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• Germany
26 Nov 08
Haha... i'm the same. It's really great to find someone same with me. :-)
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
13 Oct 12
I think most people do feel lonely and bored in some time in their life.
@Chevee (5915)
• United States
27 Nov 08
I am not the one to answer this question because I am the most loneliest person in my neighborhood. But I will make a suggestion, go for a walk, or take a drive and visit some friends, go to the mall and walk around. You might meet someone that is in need of a friend and the two of you can start a friendship. I wish luck in finding the answer. Happy MyLotting.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
27 Nov 08
It is always great to have a good friend.
@adihindu (1922)
• India
26 Nov 08
Most of the evenings I feel lonely( ,before night) I am in need of good companion beloved but it is not happening. what to do. It may happen in next birth. Any how I won't sit in a corner and cry. I will manage myself and will occupy my mind in another useful matters like that my life is going on happily by my master's grace... physical activities does affects mental activities . So we should not sit and cry we should active ourselves in another useful activities. After joining this myLot I will start discussions and respond to the discussions when I feel very bored. Happy to share your views. Happy myLotting.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
26 Nov 08
I also agree with you
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
26 Nov 08
I am so sorry to hear that. When I am sad and lonely, I spend alot of time online with my friends at Mylot and some at Gather too. Sometimes I sleep alot when I feel that way too. I hope you get to feeling better, my friend.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
26 Nov 08
I will try to keep myself busy when I get sad and lonely.
@hxqyj110 (108)
• China
26 Nov 08
When i feel lonely, i uaually look at the shy with lying on the lawn or playground.Sometime i just walk aimless.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
19 Feb 13
I think it is good to take a walk and I will also try walking and most probably walking might help.
@lizeri (533)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
I just listen to anime songs or watch anime. Sometimes, I draw, I play piano, or clean my room.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
15 Sep 12
I think it is good to listen to music and lie down in bed and relax.
• Malaysia
26 Nov 08
Do what u always do and stop thinking about it or u can express u feeling to someone you close to and someone u trust. U can always chat with your friends via internet or u can enjoy myloting that is sharing opinion and communicate with others.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
14 Nov 12
I also think it is good to spend time with friends or to be close with friends whom we are close or spend time chatting in the internet.
• China
26 Nov 08
Maybe you dont wanna talk about why you are feeling very lonely and sad .But it doesnt matter! When i encouter this ,I always turn to my hobbies ,such as reading history books,chatting ,playing basketball,and so on . If i was tried ,i would go to bed to have a sleep. Take it easy, it will passed,every body will encouter it !
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
4 Dec 12
I think it is good to go for hobbies that we like when we are sad.
@mengrufa (239)
• China
26 Nov 08
Haha, just come to my lot to start a discussion or to respond others' discussion , here you can view many things that you can not touch in your daily life, here are so many friends waiting for you, and many sad friends waiting for you to give them consolation, many happy things from our friends waiting for you to share, so why not join us at once . you should not be like that .i am sure that you can find yourself here.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
13 Nov 12
I also think it is good to come to mylot and spend time here.
@williamjisir (22903)
• China
27 Nov 08
Hello ajithlal. I am so sorry that you are feeling lonely and sad at this time. If I feel the same, I will sleep earlier in the evening. If it happens during the day, then I will spend my time either working or surfing on the Internet to read some news to distract my attention till I get better. Cheer up, my dear friend.
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
26 Nov 08
You should try to look at an Comedy movie, this will get you smiling, laughing and cheering! You can go shopping and buy the things that you like to have. You can also call up an old friend or relative to go out some where fun. And if you have an pet, you could play with them and that will make you feel not so lonely..
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• Hong Kong
26 Nov 08
You could watch some movies at home and get your mind off the loneliness. I usually watch movies, listen to songs or play computer games when I feel bored or lonely. Just try to do something instead of sitting there and being absorbed into the boredom.
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• India
26 Nov 08
Most of the time I relax with a story book or surf the TV. By God’s blessings, I am now so busy that I rarely feel lonely. With home and office and a son to balance, my hands are full most of the time. Whatever little free time I have, I enjoy myself. I think you can surf the net or read something. Books are very good companions. If you have a roadside balcony, you can also watch the life go by on the streets below. It’s a great time pass.
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• India
26 Nov 08
I often stay alone in my house. But to be frank I have never felt lonely. Just being alone will not make u feel lonely. SOmetimes u will be a part of group of 5-10 members,still wud feel lonely. Anyways,just be preoccupied,do something which u like,which interests u. Listen to smoe good mild music,read some good books. U will surely feel better. Take care!!
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• India
31 Mar 13
I feel lonely most of the time and for me it has become a habit. but I think it is good to spend some time for praying or listening to a music which you love and enjoy. or taking walk with your wife, making yourself busy with watching a comedy movie or just sitting with a plant and touch and talk to that plant....
• India
13 Mar 13
Thanks for this discussion, just relax, read some good books, watch tv, go out for a walk, i am sure it will help.
• India
15 Sep 12
You should keep your mind busy. Take up a part time job or anything that keep you busy all the time. This feeling of lonely and sad and breakdowns are just because of waste mind, you are using it in wrong direction or you are smoking too much. When you will exercise your mind by keeping it busy your feel lonely or demoralization or about to break down phase will never haunt you again. I think thinking much is your problem do some puzzles if you can't do a regular job or a pert time job. Try sudoku, or any other puzzle game or give a try to reasoning sums. Or you can read a fictional novel. Try 'Omerta Puzo'.