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Philippines
November 28, 2008 6:30am CST
Are you favor for those people unmarried? are you the one who want's to get married or not and why?
5 responses
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
28 Nov 08
I slightly agree with the person above- but then, i do not care much for couples who don't want to get married, if thats what they're comfortable with- as long as they can trust each other etc- then it's fine i guess. However again- I would want to marry my partner, as i feel it does show a commitment and loyalty to me. I am a very insecure person- and if they did not want to marry me I'd feel like there is something wrong with me.
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• Philippines
13 Dec 08
yes we feel incomplete but there's no wrong if are not married. i am not against for those people not married yes i want to get married someday. for me we can't say that it is wrong and it is the only thing that can prove our commitment.
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
I am not in favor of those who live together without getting married. I think if they really love each other, they must prove it by getting married. By that, they will have responsibilities and a commitment to each other. For me, marriage is really am important matter. I think that if someone is really serious with you, he will ask you to marry him. Well, I just got married last January and I am really happy about it. Now, my husband and I have a three-week old son and we are very happy about our married life.
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• Philippines
13 Dec 08
thanks for you're comment my friend.......for me getting married is the most important but a lot of people in this world are not married because they can't afford so it means we cannot say for those couples if they aren't married they aren't serious.
@Galena (9124)
28 Nov 08
commitment and loyalty can exist without marriage. in fact, if it doesn't already exist between the couple, they really shouldn't be considering marriage. I've been with my partner for nearly a decade, and we're getting married next year. the way I see it, we've ALREADY got the marriage. we'll be making it official with the wedding, but the marriage already exists between us, with no legal interference. we live together, love each other, are committed to a future with each other, we are faithful to each other. and this has been in place for many years now, so we know we have staying power. we know we can ride out change and stress, and difficulties, and come out just as strong. so we know our marriage will work, because it's already working.
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
i agree for you're comment my friend yes there's a lot of years or maybe decade for the true and the right one. being married people it is the best thing of our lives then we get married to prove that we have a strong commitment and loyalty to each other.
@Galena (9124)
13 Dec 08
thank you for best response
• United States
9 Dec 08
Personally I do not have a problem if a couple decides to live together and they are not married, but I think that it should be with the intent of getting married. I think if two people love each other there should not be any reason that they should not get married.
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
thanks for you're comment yes there's no any reason that they should not get married if the two love each other.
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
I try to respect each couple's dynamics but personally, I am the marrying type which is what my husband and I did 6 months ago. There are challenges but we've never been happier
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
you never been happier? so it means you made a wrong decision?