are you a mean or a nice person?

November 29, 2008 3:18pm CST
I have seen all types of people that can be both. Now there are some good people that will anything for u then there are people who dont like to do help but expect help when they need it. What do u think that the people who are good should do if that person they are helping dont want to help themselves. I try to help myself and raise my daughter and help as many as i can. But they only want more and more sometimes without counting the cost of doing it. Dont get me wrong everyone needs help in their lifetime but they shouldnt abuse that and just take advantage of other people. I have taken some things to the extreme sometimes to help but it also comes at a price. Tell me what do u do at that moment when the crisis ur in hurts u?
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@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
I'm a nice person. I approach people full of respect and the goes the same for them. then can approach me with ease. I mean without being prejudiced. When that happens when people try to abuse me, i just try to distance myself from them. Give them mild cold shoulder treatment. Make them realize within themselves that it's wrong. But i still help them no matter what.
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@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
22 Jan 09
I do like to try to help myself and m son as much as I can. I am a married woman and sometimes I do feel alone when it comes to counting on anyone especially friends to help me out. But that is going to have to be okay in my life. I think that I am a pretty nice person that doesn't like to start trouble and I don't see the point at all in being mean or treating anybody bad. I would like to treat others as I would like to be treated. It doesn't always work that way though does it?