Is it wrong to be friends?

India
December 2, 2008 4:13am CST
Hello friends hope you are doing well. Actually i happened to meet one of my close friend after a long time. She is happily married for past 6 years and both the couple are working in their different fields. It so happened she happened to talk to a guy near her office casually.Maybe 2 or 3 encounters. she says she is confused not able get her mind over him. Is ahe having a crush or infatuation ? She is anxious that she is wrong?
5 responses
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
Maybe she's just admiring the man. We can't help ourselves sometimes to admire other men. It's just natural... She just need to remember that she's already married.
@deserve40 (1605)
• India
2 Dec 08
I do not understand why she is znxious about that man. I do not think that she has done anything wrong. If her husband does not like such relationship then she has a reason to worry. However, for a working lady it is very common thing that she will have some male friends too. As long as their relationship is innocent, she need not worry. May be she should talk to her husband and tell him about this man. That should relive her from the anxity.
• India
2 Dec 08
heyy its absolutely okk.. dont make it such an issue.. its perfectly normal to have a crush on someone post marriage.. she can discuss it with her husband also and continue talking to this guy... there is nothing wrong in healthy friendship..
@stephcjh (32328)
• United States
2 Dec 08
I think it is wrong to have a crush on someone else if you go ahead and act it out with them. As long as she does not lead him on or do anything with hi, she should still be faithful to her husband. She needs to put more time into her husband though.
@jhenn22 (1243)
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
i don't she is happily married because if she is happily married she will never be attracted to anybody. I am not judging her but i am basing it on what you have shared to us. If she say so that she can't able to get the guy who she just talked a couple of times out of her mind does mean that she is attracted with that guy.