trying to help others on my spare time, but ???

United States
December 2, 2008 8:17am CST
i don't mind helping others out at all, makes me feel good that i can help. but sometime when someone do ask for help, and i tell them well i can or might be able to do it on this day, and if i am not sure i let people i might so don't hold me too it. and i never ask for anything in return. but when the people tell me no you need to do it this day or that time. and i tell them hey sorry i am working.. or i'm doing something for my wife or family thing. and they get mad. or i had one friend tell or demanded me you need to fix my computer!!! i told him right off, "no i dont need to do nothing, my computers work" do these kind of people gets on your nerves wanting you to give up your plans?
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• United States
2 Dec 08
Shouldn't they just be happy that you're already taking some time out of your schedule for them? They are on your time because they are the ones who wants something from you, so they should respect whatever time or day you can give them. They should stop and realize that, hey, you don't have to do anything for them, you just doing it because you're a good person and you want to help anyway you can.