Liars and the question is WHY?

United States
December 2, 2008 6:45pm CST
Can you be in a relationship with someone, who constantly lies? Why do adults lie? When a person is caught in a lie, why do they continue to lie, when caught in the lie(s) they told? Lying drives me crazy. Especially when you try and give an individual the benefit of the doubt. I think liars are grand illusions that come into our life to absorb our space. What do you think?
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• United States
3 Dec 08
I think if you are in relationship with someone who constantly lies to you your never going to be able to trust them. My husband is great at telling white lies. and I hate it. As far as I know he doesn't lie to me but if he can lie to his family and boss then why not me too? He has seemed to cut down alot since we've been together. He wasn't raised in the most trusting of circumstances either which I think has a lot to do with it. I think lies take up to much energy and most of the time aren't worth the time and effort that needs to put in to them.
• United States
3 Dec 08
A lie is a lie. Do you ever ask why? When you define the word "Friend" A friend is someone you know, like and trust. How well do you really know a person if they are constantly lying?
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
3 Dec 08
I don't know why they do it.....I had a friend that lied about everything...if you told her you thought something of hers was cute and where did she get it....well she'd even lie about what store she got it from...and really who cares as long as it's cute!!! She and I don't see each other anymore.....she ended up having an affair and was using me for nights out....then would meet her lover....well I don't like being used. So she was lying to everyone.....it was too much for me!