If he/she CHEATED on you would you do the same?

@n30wing (4768)
Philippines
December 3, 2008 8:17am CST
For me I dont want to risk my reputation by cheating her as revenge. It would just make the relationship to complicated if I take revenge. I believe in the power of KARMA. I just rather dump her and moving on would be revenge enough for me. Have a great day!
10 responses
@shonali (1286)
• India
4 Dec 08
what would be the difference between you and your partner if you woudl do the same thing that she did to you? but if i wouldnt have really been in love with that person and if i was really insulted with her cheating on me then i would take revenge the same way or probably in a worse way...but if i really love that person i woudl let it go but i dont think i would ever be able to forgive her ever
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
I think no one would forget the pain. Especially when you love that someone. I'll just let it go. It's enough that I forgiven her, but to forget well very hard. It will really take a long time for me. Keep on smiling! Have a great day!
@shonali (1286)
• India
17 Dec 08
i think you need to smile more than i do... so please.... smile and let it go !! move on !! time is the best healer !!
@ericajoyce (1748)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
I totally agree with you. Why would I risk myself by cheating on my partner as a way of revenge? If I really loved my partner I wouldnt take revenge by cheating on him. If he cheated on me, I'll just move on.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
Your right. Why would you make it more complicated. That you can just move on. Keep on smiling! God bless!
@miamhae (339)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
I think not only Karma may I think, but how I can be look in my self in front of the mirror without ashamed if I cheat also for revenge. Its better to let him go rather than to make a revenge for him. I know God have a good punishment for what he do.... And for me I'll wait again the right man for me. Have a nice day my friend
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
It's easy to forgive but to forget it wont be that easy. I just rather let her go. Then having her to my life. Thanks my friend miamhae keep on smiling! Take care! Advance Merry Christmas to you and your family! God bless!
@Porcospino (18767)
• Denmark
4 Dec 08
If my boyfriend cheated on me, I wouldn't do the same to him. I would feel bad about myself if I cheated on him as a revenge and I would feel that I had made a fool out of myself or that I was behaving like a child. I am not sure if I would leave him. On one hand I think that it would be hard for me to trust him again, but on the other hand, if I really love him, I might want to give him another chance and try to forgive him.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
Well their are reason why men do cheats sometimes. But their heart belongs to only one. But for me I don't think so if it will work out fine if she does that to me, it is easy to forgive but to forget I don't think so. I'll just always gonna have some doubts. But do respect your opinion. Keep on smiling! Have a nice day to you!
@silverglint (2001)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
I feel the same way as you do, if my guy cheated on me, cheating on him in return will only make our relationship worst and it will give him some sort of justification like, well, she cheated on me too. And I will not give him that excuse. I will simply end the relationship. No use being with someone who i can't trust... If he is really serious with me then he will have to earn my trust again and this time it will not be as easy.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
I think what is important with a relationship is trust and respect. If she can do it once she could do it twice. And if you give another chance, and you always have doubts, it's what for. It's easy to forgive, but to forget it's very hard. Have a nice day to you! God bless!
@modstar (9610)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
That's a pretty tough question. At the back of my mind my conscience is telling me to go and cheat to have my revenge but in reality, i will only be fooling myself if i cheat. The best revenge would be to make her regret on what she has done to me by proving to her that i'm still the better person. Of course she can't have me anymore because cheating is too much of an offense and it's pretty hard to forgive and give your trust back to the person whom you thought loves you.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
Relationship wont work if you have doubts all the time. So it's what for? Your right my friend the best revenge is to make her feel that your the better person. Have a great day to you! Take care always friend! God bless!
@joystick7 (730)
• India
3 Dec 08
I wouldnt do the same but I might most probably leave the person... I dont think second chance is worth here,,,
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
Well if she could do it once she could do it twice. When you have doubts it's what for? Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling my friend!
• Canada
3 Dec 08
Karma has it's way of making it's rounds. My personal revenge would be me not being in their life. They'd be missing out on a good thing and would have to deal with that guilt and shame for the rest of their life. I would first off though let them know I know about their filthy acts. Then I'd walk out the door.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
A relationship wont work out if you don't trust her/him. Especially when you have doubts. It's what for! Same with me I'll just turn my back ,and walk out the door! Have a great day to you! Advance Merry Christmas!
@caskins (689)
• United States
3 Dec 08
hello n30wing, my boyfriend cheated on me twice and i never thought about cheating for revenge. i also believe in KARMA. it took me awhile to forgive and i'm just now starting to trust him again. it's been almost two years since he did it.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
His lucky to have you my friend. I hope he wont do that again to you. Trust is earn! I hope he learns from his mistake! Have a great day to you! God bless!
@geonelynn (369)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
my brain won't process this information.... lol
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
Ok! Have a nice day to you!