If he/she CHEATED on you would you do the same?

what would be the difference between you and your partner if you woudl do the same thing that she did to you? but if i wouldnt have really been in love with that person and if i was really insulted with her cheating on me then i would take revenge the same way or probably in a worse way...but if i really love that person i woudl let it go but i dont think i would ever be able to forgive her ever

I totally agree with you. Why would I risk myself by cheating on my partner as a way of revenge? If I really loved my partner I wouldnt take revenge by cheating on him. If he cheated on me, I'll just move on.

I feel the same way as you do, if my guy cheated on me, cheating on him in return will only make our relationship worst and it will give him some sort of justification like, well, she cheated on me too. And I will not give him that excuse. I will simply end the relationship. No use being with someone who i can't trust... If he is really serious with me then he will have to earn my trust again and this time it will not be as easy.

That's a pretty tough question. At the back of my mind my conscience is telling me to go and cheat to have my revenge but in reality, i will only be fooling myself if i cheat. The best revenge would be to make her regret on what she has done to me by proving to her that i'm still the better person. Of course she can't have me anymore because cheating is too much of an offense and it's pretty hard to forgive and give your trust back to the person whom you thought loves you.

If my boyfriend cheated on me, I wouldn't do the same to him. I would feel bad about myself if I cheated on him as a revenge and I would feel that I had made a fool out of myself or that I was behaving like a child. I am not sure if I would leave him. On one hand I think that it would be hard for me to trust him again, but on the other hand, if I really love him, I might want to give him another chance and try to forgive him.

I think not only Karma may I think, but how I can be look in my self in front of the mirror without ashamed if I cheat also for revenge. Its better to let him go rather than to make a revenge for him. I know God have a good punishment for what he do.... And for me I'll wait again the right man for me. Have a nice day my friend

my brain won't process this information.... lol

hello n30wing, my boyfriend cheated on me twice and i never thought about cheating for revenge. i also believe in KARMA. it took me awhile to forgive and i'm just now starting to trust him again. it's been almost two years since he did it.

Karma has it's way of making it's rounds. My personal revenge would be me not being in their life. They'd be missing out on a good thing and would have to deal with that guilt and shame for the rest of their life. I would first off though let them know I know about their filthy acts. Then I'd walk out the door.

I wouldnt do the same but I might most probably leave the person... I dont think second chance is worth here,,,