Always A Listener of Others Love Stories

Philippines
December 7, 2008 10:12am CST
Sometimes I hated being just the listener. Always the one who says, "I am happy for both of you.". I want to be the one who tell my own love story. Perhaps, inspire people and let them learn on my story. But that is not the case now. I am just the listener. I listen to some happy memories and some conflicts. Okay, this is not a good role to play. And i don't want to be this way for a long time. Well, it is really nice to hear other people's stories and learn from them. At least what can be the possible conflicts or good ways to improve a relationship. And if you already are confronted with love, then you can handle it more effectively. But what if, you are stranded as a listener. Oh no! I will never let myself be a listener forever.
3 responses
@savypat (20246)
• United States
7 Dec 08
So what's stopping you? We at mylot are always ready for a good story. Just try us and see if you get responses, even if you don't you'll have the experience of telling the story. Good Luck
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• Philippines
7 Dec 08
I hope I have the story to tell. But i do not have now.
@savypat (20246)
• United States
7 Dec 08
So make one up, you say you've been listening a long time. You must have some good ones to tell.
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• Philippines
7 Dec 08
LOL! Hmmm. I'll think about that.
• United States
7 Dec 08
Same here. I think the phrase is "Always the bridesmaid, but never the bride"? Yeah I know how that feels :( Maybe one day I'll have a great story to post on here and tell everyone of, but at the moment my life is one big soap opera that could belong on daytime TV
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• Philippines
7 Dec 08
LOL! Hope you soon can tell a wonderful story to everyone. Let's wish for the both of us.
7 Dec 08
well i listen to thers problems and find out what i can do to change myself so that i never fall in such a situation. but seriously i do not like it.
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• Philippines
7 Dec 08
As a friend, we need to be that unless they don't need us anymore to listen and give help.