opinion of americans

@rick_d (213)
United States
December 7, 2008 2:05pm CST
during a recent chat with a person in Germany I discovered just how disliked Americans are.while chatting , another fellow kept popping in to tell me how America is trying to rule the world, so I started asking him questions about his perception of Americans in general.Everything he said was directed towards government actions not the American people. I explained this to him and gave him a little insight of the typical American life and he slowly came to the realization that we where not that different in our morals, life style,and basic everyday life. we have chatted a couple of times since. I think it's sad that the actions of our government have such an impact on the rest of the world that they are ready to crucify us for them.has anyone else had a similar experience?
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@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
7 Dec 08
Thank you. I haven't had this same experience but have so often heard that people dislike Americans and like you, I've always believed that it was as a result of politics. People are people everywhere and all we want is a good life for ourselves and for our children. I don't think that we are different from any other person on our planet. Hopefully, attitudes will change with a new administration. All of that being said, it amazes me that people are so quick to hate us but at the same time, they are quicker to take our money.
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@rick_d (213)
• United States
7 Dec 08
thank you for responding I knew I couldn't be the only one that has seen this. It was amazing how fast he was to judge me because I am American.It took a long conversation with him to see any turn in his belief of me.We have talked a couple of times since and he turned out to be a very nice guy, just stereotyping.
@tklich (391)
• United States
8 Dec 08
I haven't had much experience with people "hating" on the American society, but it is very understandable to me why they may think these kinds of things about us. Not only because of our government, but because of the lifestyles some American's are living. The news that all the tabloids present to the world about famous American's kind of put a name on American's in general. I personally don't keep up on celebrity lives because I purely just think it's a waste of time, but it's pretty hard to listen to a morning radio show without hearing little tib bits of information. It's sad that when people hear about just a few select individuals of a group or community, they instantly categorize them as all the same and stereotype these groups. There's not much we as individuals can do about what others think of us, we just can live our lives as normal, and the important thing is that we know the truth about America and our government.
@rick_d (213)
• United States
9 Dec 08
thanks for reponding, Yes between the government, newspaper, movies , news and media in general we "average americans" don't really have a chance.
• Philippines
8 Dec 08
well i don't think its the american people per say. it's just the people who do pass this foreign policies. it's just having the name as the sole super power can means show what the reputation means.so what what better ways to do it... well anyone can end up like iraq.
@rick_d (213)
• United States
8 Dec 08
thank you for responding we all seem to see the same things
@stinge (810)
• United States
8 Dec 08
I think it goes both ways. Look at the attacks on 911 many yrs back. many of us americans started loooking at any pakistani people living here as terror suspects. I took a flight to Georgia one year, and sad enough to admit this, but an indian man got up and was walikng to the bathroom. The whole time I wa saying to myself "were the f#ck is he going!" I was on the plane looking at everyone. I didn't even want to fall asleep.
@rick_d (213)
• United States
8 Dec 08
thank you for responding and I can see why tho. the attacks of 911 is not something that normally happens here and it took us all by surprise, thats all you heard about in the media and they basically put us in a panic with all the warnings, so with no surprise americans got a bit paranoid and started giving in to the ugly trap of "steriotyping" just as we did during ww2.hopefully we are all past that and have moved on.People are people all over and basically want the good for all
• United States
8 Dec 08
I have to admit, I'm an American, and i dislike most Americans too. It's not everybody, but take a good, long, slow look around some time - most Americans are completely clueless as to who they are, and what they are doing at any given time. And it 's not that the majority of humans elsewhere are any different, but I think Americans (in general, not everyone) think they are the best in the world, everyone else is "lacking something". And it took a major wake up call (September 11, 2001) to knock us down a few pegs on the spritual totem pole, but things still seem to be gravitating back to ego. Think of schoolyard bullies - they are usually the biggest, strongest kids (and usu. the ones who got left behind a year...) and they use their size advantage to push others around. sound familiar? but again, like the point you made - that's majorly the Amer. govt, not the people And that's why I think travel is such a crucial thing, because when your opinion of others is only base on what the tv tells you, and not travel and first hand opinion, you don't have all the facts We are all one, I feel.
@rick_d (213)
• United States
8 Dec 08
thank you for the honest comment, great observation.
• India
8 Dec 08
yes indeed ur right.. amerians are dishonest.. disrespectfull,, selfish nd greedy
@rick_d (213)
• United States
8 Dec 08
thank you for the response I hope you feel better
@kkthom3 (279)
• United States
7 Dec 08
I think that people from other countries also have a negative view of Americans because of Hollywood. Many people only see how celebrities act and they think that this is a reflection of our entire country. That really bothers me when they just assume that everyone is as fake, vain,a nd materialistic and the people on tv usually are.
@rick_d (213)
• United States
7 Dec 08
thank you for responding. I agree with you about Hollywood, I never thought about it from perspective but it makes a lot of sense. I'll have to ask him about TV and movies in his country(Sweeden)