Will you marry me ??????

@eshaan (6193)
India
December 13, 2008 6:43am CST
ok....when n how did u say...or about to say...to your belolved...??? Mine was an arranged marriage...so didnt get the chance to ask it......as it was clear already when we were meeting, that its for marriage purpose....and all was done by elders...what about u...it must be very romantic for u...or just sudden..surprising....just tell me....if u dont mind...
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@balasri (26554)
• India
28 Dec 08
It was a shock for a happily married man with a daughter to see the first line. Well I have collected myself together after reading the complete discussion.Mine is an arranged marriage and it is so sweet and great without happened to ask for those lines.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
28 Dec 08
.....good that u collected urself sooooon......i will take care not to use such titles...some friends here may be heart patients.....so ..u didnt miss the joy, nice....try sometimes saying it to ur wife...thinking urselves to be unmarried...maybe u realise the joy...!!!
@balasri (26554)
• India
29 Dec 08
Thank you very much for bringing me down to reality.I will definitely ask my wife to marry me.
@balasri (26554)
• India
6 May 09
Thanks a lot for the BR Eshaan.
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
i live in with my wife for three years before we got married. and when i ask her i think i was mentally, emotionally and financially stable so i i rented a small house in the foot of a mountain. were we can see the whole city from up there. just the two of us. we had BBQ and a lot of fun. then i said we are going to be happier when we get married. then she was just looking at me with tears in her eyes. then i said i know you will say yes when i ask you to marry me. she laugh loud and said that was very boastful but YES the answer is yes.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
13 Dec 08
wooooow...so romantic...i can feel her feelings from your words...the unforgettable moment in your life right??? ....may u be happy always.....though a little boastful....it was coz of your confidence that u said in that way...keep her happy always...!!!!
• Philippines
14 Dec 08
i love making her laugh and she knows one of my tactics on making her laugh is sometimes being boastful. i am not really boastful i just used it as a style to make her laugh. i was so nervous and there is no other way that i can tell that but to be funny and boastful at the same time. we are married for six years and we have a two year old son his pictures appears at my avatar.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
17 Dec 08
sooo nice....he's cute...wish u a very happy married life and many more happy years ahead...
@nishdan01 (3055)
• Singapore
30 Dec 08
I am bit surprised and was thinking the relevance of the title. I am happily married and mine was an arranged marriage. But arrangrd marriages are lasting and they can be more romantic depending on the person involved. At the same time love marriages are not so romantic too as the journey began. So it depends. I am thinking that you are feeling as if you missed the oppurtunity to ask that question. You should have made use of the oppurtunity before.Stop worrying and be happy as you are. There is no place for regrets in life.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
30 Dec 08
no, really not...i am not regreting it....just wanted to know the feelings who asked it or those who were asked this question, what was their reaction after it was asked or what was in their minds while asking....i would have asked if i had selected myself, but as i did not do it, asking doesn't matter much...
@nishdan01 (3055)
• Singapore
31 Dec 08
So you want to know the feelings? Try asking someone who does not know you and 5 min later apologise to her. By the way, tell that to your wife too. This way you can know the feelings of both.
• United States
21 Dec 08
I was pregnant before we got married and he said "We have to do the right thing" no proposal.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
22 Dec 08
so it was almost already decided...that means u were more sure to be together from beginning...
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• United States
30 Dec 08
I felt for years that the only reason he married me was because of the baby. I did not think he truly loved me. We are still married so I guess he truly loves me.
@rb200406 (1825)
• India
18 Dec 08
Mine was also same as i had arranged marriage.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
18 Dec 08
hmmmm...we missed that joy na...!!!
@1hopefulman (28631)
• Canada
10 May 09
Different cultures have different customs, choice or arranged. When it works out, it's all the same. I'm a single person so can't answer your question.
@Bebs08 (10689)
• United States
31 Dec 08
hehehe!! your topic made me smile. I can still recall when my hubby ask me before these exact words..." will you marry me?" I can still remember when he ask me? I was tongue tied.. I don;t know what to say. I did not expect that he will ask me on that very moment. It took me several minutes to say YES!! Me and my hubby know each other online before we meet in person. We dated on the net for several months before we meet in person,, then here we go.. he proposed on our first meeting. But we were engaged to be married for a year after that memorable day.]