How do you know?

@messageme (2821)
United States
December 13, 2008 4:30pm CST
Sometimes when a women says no she really means yes. How do you know if when she says no she means no and when she says no she really means yes. Can you really tell a difference? Women do you really mean what you say or do sometimes just try to make the man more confused and think he should really know the right answer.
5 responses
@rosdimy (3936)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 08
As far as I know when a woman says no she means maybe. How do I know when a woman really mean it when she says no? Body language. When we are talking or just being with other people our body language usually tells the truth. So when a woman says no the tone of her voice, the way she says it, the movement of her eyes, the tilt of her head, the gestures of her hand, and the posture she adopts may be sending a completely different message and signals her feelings. So far I have never been wrong. all the best, rosdimy
@messageme (2821)
• United States
14 Dec 08
yes body language does have a big role in it and also the sound of her voice. Thank you for sharing.
@klaudine (3653)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 08
In communication there is two kind of messages someone conveys. The verbal message is what you heard and what you read, the non verbal messages is the other meaning followed the message. The intonation, the volume of the voice, the pucntuation, and all. I think they can just make some answer but listening to how they tell you that, could make some differences from the 'real yes' to the 'faked yes'.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
14 Dec 08
i think you are right. if the woman is joking about her no you should definitly know it.
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
13 Dec 08
Me, What are you talking about? You sound like a guy who is trying to justify doing something against a woman's wishes. I can honestly say I don't know a single woman that doesn't mean what she says, yes or no!! I'm shocked! Do you really believe that? leenie
@messageme (2821)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I sound like a guy because that question came from a guy, not me. He was curious. So am I since he brought it up...:) It made me think he was talking about something specific, but he says he wasn't. humm....I gave him the same answer you just said...A woman says what she means! yes means yes and no means no.
@andy77e (5170)
• United States
8 Aug 10
I actually really hate that. If there is anything about women I truly hate, it's that right there. If you say 'no', to me you said 'no', and therefore I'm going to respond as if you said 'no'. "no" means "no". The end. So if a girl comes up and says "no" to something I say, I'm going to accept that and move on with my life. If that is not what she 'really meant'.... TO BAD! You said 'no' and that's what I'm going by. If you meant 'yes', then you should have said 'yes'. Sorry, I don't play word games, and there's no such thing as 'opposite day', where I'm supposed to assume the opposite of whatever you said. Elementary school is over, start acting like an adult, and say exactly what you mean.
@Khayam (346)
• Romania
13 Dec 08
Actually, although our manhood might make us think differently, it is the WOMAN the one who chooses: not only the partner, but also the moment when she is in the mood to unleash her passion intimatelly. Therefore, you shouldn't be confused. If a woman wants you, she would be more than concise, if not in her words, surely in her actions. ;-) Don't worry, when they are out there for hunt, you'll realize that you'll be the next catch.