When do you mark the Best Response for a Discussion.?

India
December 17, 2008 7:52pm CST
I Really wanted to know that when do you people mark the best response for the discussion that you started..actually when i was just five or ten posts old,i would mark it immediately but after that when i saw better responses coming through the way i really started to think and left the discussion open for users for over a month and then i marked the best response..what do you do? when do you mark the best reaponse?
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@Calais (10893)
• Australia
18 Dec 08
I usually wait at least 7 days before I mark mine, not everyone can log in everyday, so it gives those an opportunity to respond and maybe get the best response...
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• India
18 Dec 08
a thats right..everyone has to be given chance so i give them chance for over a month and then only i mark them as the best response..
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Waiting also allows other members that aren't on our friends list a chance to find the discussion and respond getting a chance at the BR. I do mine 2 times a month usually. I hate them getting stockpiled up too deep. HAPPY HOLIDAYS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
18 Dec 08
Yeah thats great, I wouldnt do it before a week, and I know they can pile up, but I dont start too many discussions so I dont mind waiting...
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Well for me, when it comes to marking the Best Response, very seldom will I mark one as Best Response faster than at least a couple of weeks. For me, I also want to give people a chance to see my discussion and respond to it. Sometimes I end up getting a Better response like you said as well. The only time I will go and mark some of them faster than this, is the instance where when reading over them and responding back to them, I see one and think that one says exactly like I feel or wanted to hear, and then end up marking it sooner. But I am quite behind in choosing my Best Responses so I have a lot of catching up to do still as well.
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• India
18 Dec 08
Oh thats the same as i said and i think people like us should be careful from here onwards and mark the real best response and let we should appreciate the others who have really done well besides them..we should really give them credits by saying atleast a word or two and we should not leave them..anyway this discussion would serve like a eye opener for me and hope you are also benefitted...
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
18 Dec 08
I usually start 5 to 10 discussions the days I start any. I tend to mark best respponses twice a month for the most part. This gives other members beside my friends a chance as well at earning the BR. I have never really given out a BR quickly unless it was so out there that I knew then it was the one to be rewarded BR. HAPPY HOLIDAYS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
21 Dec 08
Grandpa is all over mylot. I wish you are the Santa and will start giving gifts to us.
• United States
21 Dec 08
I usually give it two weeks after the last response. However sometimes i get bored and make them before that.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
18 Dec 08
It really depends on the response. If it touches my heart then I give it, if it doesn't then I wait until I get one for the discussion. Probably this is the reason why you will see most of my discussions are unresolved. May I should think different and start giving BR based on some criteria like ranking of the person, number of words and star rating.
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• India
18 Dec 08
Oh that would also be great but if you think one point that is the one has number 10 star ratings would already be a good writer and he would already be well reputed in this site so there's no need for him from you to give the best response but if you give it to the one who has really written well he would surely be grateful to you..i think that would also be nice..this is just my advice its upto you to follow or not..anyway thanks for your reply..
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@camomom (7535)
• United States
19 Dec 08
I have my own method, I picked a certain number of days and number of responses. When I reach either that many days or that number of responses, I'll mark best response. Sometimes I just forget about it and it takes longer but that's what I try to do.
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@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Hello and good afternoon, friend. I personally have my own criteria in this particular issue. I wouldn't mark the best response until I haven't received at least 8 replies in any of my discussions. Unfortunately, I must admit that I do have a lot of discussions which have less than 8 replies, to date. Further, I also have discussions which have no responses at all, which is worse. Some of them were even created by me a couple of years back. Honestly, I'm quite worried about my 'unresolved' category full of these discussions. In fact, I even started a discussion entitled, 'how do I delete discussions with no responses?' a couple of weeks ago. Sadly enough, most of the respondents said that it's not quite possible to delete them. So, I don't have any other choice but to wait for those discussions to be responded or for them to gain at least 8 replies. But I'm still not giving up hope. I believe sooner or later, some other mylotters would take notice of them and eventually, they'll be replied to. Happy holidays, friend.
• India
19 Dec 08
Oh thats great maam..even though in some cases you could decrease the number of number of posts if they do not meet your requirements after some months also..i think it really impossible for people to read your post which has got no replies and has been around 1 year..it really is difficult for people to find these kinda of posts..
@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
18 Dec 08
Hello, balacancer22! I believe that it is safe to assume that you can mark your best response, in any of your discussion, after 48 hours without getting any more response. This way, you can be sure that people are probably not going to answer to it anymore. Then you mark it, and if somebody elses respond, then you just comment if needed. Some people wait too much, like months. Some people do not wait at all. Discussions created five hours ago and are already marked with the best response. Respectfully, Munhozmib.
• India
19 Dec 08
Thats not really a good idea since some of your mylot friends may not have logged within two days and may log at the end of the week so they have to be given a chance to answer your question since some mylotters over here answer only to the queestions posted by the friends in their lists..
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@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
20 Dec 08
Hmm... In my opinion, it is a great way. Let's suppose you create a discussion on Monday. on Tuesday, people will still be answering it. But let's say that, by Wednesday, you get no more responses. Then you will wait until Friday night to solve the discussion. Which means that your friends will probably have logged in already. And the time can go longer, depending on how many responses you get.
@maclanis (2357)
• Belgium
18 Dec 08
I don't really start that much discussions so therefore I don't really need to mark a lot of best responses. I mark the best response if there is one response that jumps out.
• Malaysia
19 Dec 08
hi normally i give some time to get more response then i select the ones i actually find the most informative cheers
@aakay4u (799)
• India
18 Dec 08
If i get a very satisfying answer then immediately otherwise wait for 2-3 days and if i think there's something relevant in all i get,then only.If the replies are not matching the real query i dont mark.I am new here,for quite some time didnt know such things.But now have understood few things here and made it a point to rate people and mark the response.I think that i should wait for some more days from now on to mark the best response.
• India
18 Dec 08
oh thats great dude..i think now you have understand the nukes and corners of the trade in mylot and hope you continue your good work by giving best response to writers who are really worth for that...
@srijshm (1165)
• India
18 Dec 08
i think that it is better to wait "n" number of days than count responses before picking the best response. I normally wait 3-4 days before picking the best response. I also look for original content, really helpful tips & preferably humour to select the best response. If someone has taken extra pain to re-respond to my comment that person has a very good chance to get best response in my books.(as we all know that we do not get paid for responding to comments)
• India
18 Dec 08
Oh that was really informative and i hope many would really be benifitted by your comment...
@Rexdoron (345)
• Malaysia
19 Dec 08
For me, it is hard to mark best response. So, until now, I have not mark any. I am thinking of waiting for two weeks after my discussion being posted. It is fairly long for me to wait for people to response to it. Based on the quality and the thought given, I'll mark the best response. But still, it is not an easy job for me.
• India
19 Dec 08
Thats a great deal dude..keep it going...
@Rexdoron (345)
• Malaysia
19 Dec 08
Thanks man!
• Malaysia
18 Dec 08
I would give a duration of time for which I think it should be closed. Then, during the time, I would see if the quality satisfy me, if yes, I would wait for another three to ten response and if there has better response, then maybe I could delay, if not, that is the time...
@rakleen (565)
• India
18 Dec 08
when the answer strikes straight at my HEART.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
I give the best response after receiving enough number of responses and I have spotted that one of them already deserves to be awarded. It sometimes take me a lot of weeks to decide which one would get the BR because there are times when so many have really given very good answers. When that happen I tend to give the BR to whoever was the first who gave the best answer.
• China
18 Dec 08
For me, I will go to check my discussions after 5 days. But not always mark one if there's not a very good one in my opinion.
@Dattz170 (58)
• India
18 Dec 08
I mark a response as best response if i think it is fully according to the Discussion, having touched my heart; and has helped me to solve the discussion. I usually mark them after like say 2-3 weeks!
• China
18 Dec 08
Maybe that don't have the best response for a discussion i think. Because the way of one's think is different, so maybe the answer is very different. But the best response for a discussion maybe is according to topic to decide.