Ladies ,would you be flattered by two men fighting for your affection ?

The idea of it sounds flattering but my experience with this was very stressful because I had feelings for both and even though I was only officially with one of them at the time, I was uncomfortable anytime they would confront each other. The first guy would not let go and move on, he kept hoping we would get back together and I hated to see him trying to hang on like that.

I don't think that having guys fighting over me is a good idea. The whole thing can be quite stressful. Things can also get complicated when the two guys get into some real trouble like being sued or picked up by the police for unruly behavior. I don't think that I like that kind of complication in my life.

I've been in this situation twice in my life. When I was in 3rd grade these 2 boys got into a fist fight over me. I don't know how it started. Normally I walked home with one of them, but I began walking alone and half way home is where I saw them fighting. It actually terrified me, and after that point I didn't like either of them, and practically stopped speaking to them both. Then it happened as an adult as well, but this time the guys didn't get into an actual fight, they just hated each other. I was dating one of them and friends with the other. The friend had a crush on me, that was a well known fact, but I stayed friends with him anyways. They tried to be polite to each other in person, but the one I was dating was a real jerk. He said a lot of rude things about my friend behind his back. In hindsight I could tell he was just jealous. Well in the end I broke up with the one I was dating... and eventually married the friend, lol. I'm still with him now, more than 7 years later.

I have been in such situation and was kinda stressing. But in the end I chose the most friendly one. Till today I don´t know if I did the right choice. I think I will never know that answer.

As this has never happened It is flattering in one respect.I don't think having two men fighting over me as a prize is something I would not really enjoy.The choice the prize fighter or one with more money then sence if the men could not accept my choice of partner they could kill each other for all I cared.I would walk away and let them get on with it and find someone else.I have been admired by more than One man at once and that was nice.I did not like either of them in that way,they ended up being friends and left me alone.xxx

i'd have the one who can physically handel the show. i dont need gifts, i can buy whatever i want,i need my man to be able to protect me, especially in such a violent world

I think I would be surprised if I ever had two men fighting over my affections at one time. I was never a magnet for men before I was married. I don't know what I'd do with all the attention.

My fiance and I are happy together but if another person came along wanting my affections I would not want a fight to break out, I would just tell the other person that I was happy with my fiance and that I would like him to know. I don't think fighting is a very good thing unless your fighting for your rights.

I think it would be flattering to have two men fightting for my affection; however, i dont think i would choose either of them lol... I dont like men that get in fights alot. Being a man is not all about fighting. For myself i believe that men should be caring towards you, they should show strong intrest in admiring you, but having to get into a fist fight to prove that they admire you more is not cool. Men should not be worry about other men. If you have great qualities in you then that should be all that the women is looking for!

Eight years ago I was involved in such a situation. I'd had an engagement ended with one man, and had started dating another. Then suddenly the other guy decided he'd made a mistake and wanted me back. What to do? I finally told the "new" guy that I had to see the old guy one last time at least on a date to make my decision. It didn't even take the whole date. The old guy showed up in a limo, with flowers and gifts and took me to an expensive restaurant. It was just too much overkill. He was pushing it and it just didn't feel genuine. So, I told him that it was over, he'd have to live with his mistake and left. I apologized to my new guy, and we've been together ever since. Guys who have to prove how they feel by gifts or fighting - I want nothing to do with them. I'm more interested in the guy who shows he cares thru feelings, rather than thru fists or gifts.

yes of course, if a girl wont admit that this is so flattering she sounds hypocrite/fraud...lol

yes, in my younger years! in my teenage life, i would say there were similar situation, and yes, i should say it was way too flattering!!!! but now in my age, i should say i wouldn't go for that. if i have a choice, i would want NOT to be in that situation, that would only give pure headache! have a nice day! =)

The idea sounds flattering... but then i dont want two guys fighting over me... gosh.... just give them the hint to whoever i like.. and then just tell the guy.. that u just want to remain frens and that u dont have feelings for him... it is stupid to fight over some girl in my opinion.. and girls who like to see guys fight over them... is dumb.....

No, never been that situation. :)But if it that happens hmmmm, its like, can I choose two? lol. Seriously, I'll go for a man that I love most, I love for all the right reasons. :)

No one likes fights. yes i think girls will be delighted if a lot of people vie for her affection, but fighting would be a no no i am sure. They would hate both of them and never fall of either of them if they came to blows over her.