what will you do when you are having a bad relationship?

@jzqt27 (542)
Canada
December 21, 2008 9:22pm CST
i don't have a bad relationship , but i would like to know what will people/you do when they/you are having a bad relationship. just in case i fall into this situation.
6 responses
• China
22 Dec 08
Yes, I had once met that condition, but I finnally I also make it reviviscent. It happened between my friend and I, well, I dont remember about what kind of thing, after that, we behaved just like strangers. But this friend is very important to me, so throw my honor, I activiely called on her, and express my apoligy, then we become friendly again. I think if we have bad relationship with others, we should consider that whether other ones are wealthy of your friends.
@spalladino (17925)
• United States
22 Dec 08
It depends on how bad the relationship is and whether or not children are involved. If the problems are small and can be worked out, then I always lean towards working them out but if there is abuse, that's it as far as I am concerned. If there is no abuse and there are children involved then both parties have the obligation to do the best that they can to have a good relationship for the sake of the kids.
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Ending a bad relationship hurt both, and it always as they say, take two to tango, but I just can't afford to destroy my self and destroy him over and over, and get painfully stuck. Relationship does not going to any good, does not help you both as a person. We can always withdraw, stop and get out of the position. I think there is not "one and only" person in the world. So leave.
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
First, how will you define "bad relationship"? I had a few relationships, but I do not consider them as bad relationship, rather I consider it as it did not work out and so I have to end it. When I see that the relationship is no longer working and the pain is getting worse, I have to deal with it and end it than nurturing more pain until upi lose respect to yourself. That isn't good, right? But think positive, there will always be a good relationship that awaits you.
@Flouya (283)
• India
22 Dec 08
To be honest,i have met the bad situation,i couldn't deal with the relationship well with my roomate .The main reason is that she always ask me to lend money to her.Always she would pay it back after a long time.Even several days before,she said her friend would go to the hospital wanted me to her a hand that i could lend her 600 barks.Two months past,but she still doesn't pay it back. How about you if you were me?
@coolcat123 (4392)
• India
22 Dec 08
If I have an onging bad relationship,I will try to sort out the problem between me and the other so the situation can be back to normal and if it doesn't work then there is only one way and that is to keep on the bad relationship between me and other person.