Do you care about what your friends think about you?

Singapore
January 4, 2009 7:57am CST
Sometimes i am quite sensitive when heard negative rumours about me.But sometimes i can ignore it as well.Just feel uncomfortable and upset over it.How about you?
3 responses
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
Of course i care about that my friends think about me, but i would never give time to care to those people who arent my friends and doesnt know me that much. If i heard about negative rumors from my friends, i would surely feel upset about it. [;
• India
4 Jan 09
yeah it bothers me wat my friends think about me. i hope all thinks good about me but if any bad thing is there than i will luv to ask them that dear wats the prob hav i done anything wronng. and if i find that oh yeah it was realy not good than i will change my self. actually i luv to this this helps u in improving urself. well thank god till now it doesnt happen with me all my friends are happy with me.
• India
4 Jan 09
It happens in life. Always remember that you can't please every person on earth. There shall always be naysayers. But the thing you'll have to really ask yourself is that whether there are also people, however few, who believe in your capabilities and also in you as a person. If the answer is yes, then concentrate upon them only and ignore the rest. But sometimes, it also pays off to lend an ear to these rumours as it's only other people who can judge you objectively. It maybe that unknowingly you have or are committing some acts which are displeasing people around you. By listening to their grievances only you can understand what's wrong with you. But if the rumours are truly rumours and don't have any basis of truth, then just go on ahead with your life. It suffices that you know who you are. Other people talk this rubbish only because they are jealous of you. Welcome to myLot. Cheers.