How can you tell if a guy is interested in you?

United States
January 4, 2009 12:37pm CST
How can you tell if a guy is interested in you? I mean what do guys do differently with girls that they ARE attracted to than girls that they aren't. I just wanna know what signs a guy gives out to let you know that he REALLY likes you. How can you tell. I don't believe nookie is really a deciding factor. It seems some guys have nookie with girls they don't even like that much. How do you tell if you are really liked? I don't want to TEST guys because I know they probably hate that. It would be awesome if I could get some guy advice.
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 09
Different guys display different sets of signs. When a guy really likes you he would display more than one sign. 1) Tongue tied. This usually happens when the guy does not know you either completely or very well. This reaction is partly due to a fear of rejection. 2) Flustered. This sign can easily be recognised if you already know the person as calm and poised. 3) Gazing at you or into your eyes. 4) Showing concern about you more than anybody else. 5) Unconsciously preening himself when he is with you. 6) Certain guys, usually the shy and/or low self confidence, avoids aye contact because they are afraid you can see it in their eyes. 7) Shows signs of dejection when you tell him you aew going somewhere with another guy. Look at him closely when you tell him so. This is especially true in the conservative types. The list is longer but I think you can have a fair idea from the points given above. all the best, rosdimy
• United States
4 Jan 09
Thanks! Good info.
@celticeagle (159710)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Jan 09
It used to be that a man would send flowers if he liked a gal. Now days men get nookie readily so they have little respect for the way things should be done. Here is the scoop: If a man is worth being interested in he will make it known that he likes you. Don't play games and don't go after men that play games and want more than they should have initially. Make it known from the start that you are a woman of callaber and worth. Kick the rogues to the curb and let it be known that you will be treated with respect. A good man will make his intentions known.
• India
4 Jan 09
try to learn from the eyes it expresess never hides anything under its lid try to learn from the body language it will talk to you its affection toward U