A friendly warning to those who have hospitalized loved ones

Philippines
January 13, 2009 4:58am CST
I would like to give this warning to everyone who's got a relative or a friend in the hospital. I know how difficult it is emotionally and financially, especially for people like me who live in not-so-economically-well-off countries. No matter how hard it already is for you taking care of someone in the hospital, some people can and will take advantage of your situation. Last year, my grandmother's diabetes got worse, and she had to be in the intensive care unit for weeks. We had to buy intravenous medicine in vials, and each vial is really expensive (like five times the daily minimum wage). There was a time when she has to be given three vials, one vial every eight hours. My mom bought it, say, last night. She went home to sleep, eat, and change, and then she's off again to the hospital the next morning. To her surprise, the nurse-on-duty (NOD) told my mom to buy 3 more vials. My mom said, "I just bought three vials last night, and that's not even 12 hours ago. I gave the vials to the NOD, so where are they?" Then the nurses in the ICU started pointing fingers, until we found out who the culprits were. It turned out that this is not the first time that medicines got stolen in this hospital, and the thieves sell it to other people for a lower price. These crooks should be really thankful that my mom didn't get them fired, as they deserve to be. I'm not saying all nurses are like this. All I'm saying is that we have to be really careful. There are people who will pull you further down for their own advantage.
3 responses
@crigal (105)
• United States
13 Jan 09
Well, not sure where you are but it doesn't actually work that way in the US. You are given whatever meds in the hospital and are charged later. We don't buy the "vials" first...it is given and paid later. Hope everything is ok.
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
I'm from the Philippines. Things are much different in here. You're lucky you're in the US, some guys here are willing to do everything just to get there. Thanks anyway ^_^
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
Thank you for that warning! I never knew about that and was not aware that such a scam took place in the hospitals. I guess that if there ever came a time that I find myself in the same situation, I'd make sure I make the NOD sign a form that she received medicines from me. In that way, she'd be held responsible if any of them went missing. I think it would also be good if I posted that on my door - then whoever's turn it is to watch over the patient can refer to it when a nurse asks for it.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
13 Jan 09
This happens even in India in really good hospitals where they charge you through the nose. More so in ICU where the patient is completely dependent on the nurses and doctors and relatives can only sit out. The costlier medecines get lost and we have to keep buying them. This system must change actually, only then will we not be fleeced in our countries. Must take good points from all countries and amend our ways like them. I hope your grandma is better. Good luck to all.