What was your first time like?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
January 14, 2009 12:29am CST
Was it painful? Was it boring? Was it frightening? Was it perfect? How was it?
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marky15
@marky15 (75)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
Well, for the gals, it would be certainly painful. For guys, as like me, It is frightening at first. Well after you experienced that pleasurable sensation, it is a very wonderful experience i won't surely forget.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Oh? Why was it frightening??
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avidwhit
@avidwhit (1492)
• Mexico
25 Jan 09
Interesting point I think you have touched on a deep feeling.
marky15
@marky15 (75)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
you'll surely get scared of the thoughts of what the consequences might be of the actions you're going to make when you in yourself knows that you are not fully prepared for that.
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yezzyk
@yezzyk (180)
• Netherlands
25 Jan 09
Hi laydee, My first time was with my first love. I felt totally comfortable with him and he with me. It was a very good, loving experience, because we were both ready and with no pressure. Lately I found him again and we're now back in contact with eachother. Both carying warm memories of our first time.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
Wow, that's great. How does it feel like meeting him again? It must be pretty knee-wobbling!
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yezzyk
@yezzyk (180)
• Netherlands
26 Jan 09
It was a bit, yes. But most of all was very happy that I could hug him again after 12 years. Because of the good experience, he was an important figure in my life once, so he's dear to me. Now, we're dear old friends that happen to share some good memories.
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Jan 09
LOL! You are asking us to reveal very personal details, if your question is intended only towards woman, then I'll have to answer it on my better half's behalf. Yes, she was very much scared and nervous. I did my best to calm her down. LOL! Please do not ask me to reveal whether the act was perfect or not, let it be a secret. Unusally interesting post! What about you?
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
15 Jan 09
It is really strange that someone can write a blog on this topic (Must be caraeous or special persoan..........LOL!). If you ask me to reply - I too was nervous but less than my better half. It is great to know that yours was memorable and perfect. Your first experience being perfect, you cannot forget the same in your life. Have a great day! Deepak
laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Hahahaha.. I wasn't pointing to any gender when I asked the question, it's actually for both man and woman. :) I actually came across a blog describing the person's first time and it was horrifying, so I was curious how it was for others because mine was memorable and perfect.
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maddysmommy
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
16 Jan 09
It was over very quickly ... and so was the relationship LOL young and naive (well not that young LOL)
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Naive... truly.. that's what makes it awkward..
deepak_unlimited
@deepak_unlimited (66)
• India
14 Jan 09
ohhhh it was wonderfuuuulll i cant explain
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Hehehe.. Was it wonderful for you partner too??
deepak_unlimited
@deepak_unlimited (66)
• India
15 Jan 09
ya it was bcoz 4 both of us it was 1st time...
deepak_unlimited
@deepak_unlimited (66)
• India
25 Jan 09
can i ask d same thing from you....how was urs..
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
It was perfect. I wasn't rushed and there was no pressure. We both felt it was the right time and it was awesome. How bout you?
walnutbrownie
@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
15 Jan 09
afraid, shy and curious as how it would feel like..and it felt good tho wid few awkard moves hahahh
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Hhahaahaha..
avidwhit
@avidwhit (1492)
• Mexico
14 Jan 09
It wasnt any of the above. To explaion it in a word I d say more like akward. I do think somethings get better with time and experience. LOl and its a good thing its better than the 1rst.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Hahahahaha... awkward... whew.. it brings back memories ey? It's good though that you said that over time it gets better and better.
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owntuilp
@owntuilp (422)
• China
14 Jan 09
it is so perfect for me,i know
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
How was it perfect if you don't mind?
modstar
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
My first time wasn't really performance level. I had difficulty getting it in. lol! I don't know maybe i was nervous. I worry too much about getting girls pregnant even until now so i'm really careful when it comes to withdrawing. It's a little perfect in a sense that i gave it to the one who deserves it. We broke up though but she's still the lady i want my virginity taken by.
workathomewife
@workathomewife (75)
• Germany
14 Jan 09
It was horrible. Not so much painful, but really ridiculous. I look back now & laugh.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Hehehehe.. Oh my... I hope your first isn't reading all this.. else he'd surely be insulted?
dhurianne
@dhurianne (205)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
Well surely that would be painful. if others did not experience the pain, I don't know what they do. I knew someone who got sick after her first time.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
I didn't feel much pain the first time.. He really was very patient and we communicated well. I guess it's because we truly love each other.
SeoulBoy_Art
@SeoulBoy_Art (193)
• Japan
14 Jan 09
It was the first time. I was trying toi figure out what I was doing. Then nature took over and it turned out fine. It's always good to have a partner who knows what they are doing the first time.
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Oh yeah! Else you'd be sitting ducks puzzled and confused.. hahahaha If they don't really have the experience, AT LEAST they've researched or knows the theory, right?
kryssyxxx
@kryssyxxx (29)
• Canada
15 Jan 09
oh my...this sure brings me back:P It was in a parking lot with my first boyfriend ever..it was not fun, not good and gladly not painfull:P i would descride it as awkward:P
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laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Hehehehehe... awkward is usually the answer.. Glad you weren't caught since you guys did it in the parking lot..