Do you get alone with your step child mother?

Canada
January 15, 2009 12:27pm CST
Well i use to get alone really good with my step daugther's mom but lately i don't agree with some of the decisions she make and i thing my step daugther is suffering the consequences.It's my step daugther's birthday soon(7years old)and we have a party plan for her,i invited her mom 3-4 times all ready and she always said "well...i don't know i might be doing something else that day".Now my husband just ask her and she said"no i'm not comming"no explaination...It make me hangry to see that little care for her daugther.what do you think?
2 responses
• United States
18 Jan 09
Maybe she's doing her own thing with your step daughter for her birthday? My mom and dad divorced when I was 6, and I always had separate parties after that.
@gicolet (1704)
• United States
16 Jan 09
She probably has something else on mind for her daughter's birthday? I mean she can't be that cold, can she? It's either that or maybe she's feeling somewhat insecured with the fact that you have plans for her daughter and she doesn't. I don't know how you and your husband communicate with her but I don't communicate with my step daughter's mom. We just smile and say hello to each other everytime we see each other and that's it. I don't believe on making any good relationship with my husband's ex let's put it that way. Whatever you do do it for the child and don't worry about the mom. It was nice enough of you to invite her. She already made it clear that she's not coming so it's her problem not yours.