will you keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend after marriage?

China
January 16, 2009 1:42am CST
and if you do, will your wife mind that?
5 responses
• United States
17 Jan 09
I dated a man on and off for six years, and we talked about marriage. We broke up, and he married another girl. I've met her twice, and she is really nice. I wish them both nothing but the best. However, I don't always respond to his messages and things because I know that if I were his wife, I would feel awkward about the situation and I respect his wife to much to make her feel that way. I think that, if you are married, you need to realize that your spouse is your best friend, and that you should have friends as a couple. Does that make sense? It's something that communication is definitely integral to.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
16 Jan 09
only if it was a break up that it was nurtal and we're still ok as friends i would. my wife wouldn't mind if she met her. we use to hang out with my wife ex b/f
@ktosea (2025)
• China
16 Jan 09
I don't and will not keep in touch with my ex-girlfriend even before marriage,I don't need to make my current girl friend fell insecure.besides it's not neccessary to keep in touch with her,she has a family and why disturb her? so I'd like to let it go if the relationship is over
@chriswolf (360)
• China
16 Jan 09
I think it is not right to keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend since you have a new one, no matter you are married or not. Love is somehow selfish, you know.
@djemba (767)
• India
16 Jan 09
I don't think thats a gud idea..coz when u're married you have a girl(ur wife) and u wudnt want to upset her and that means she wud mind