Would you, could you, survive being Amish?

@peedielyn (1207)
United States
January 21, 2009 1:59pm CST
Hello Friends! I have been reading a few stories here lately about the Amish ways of life. I love how the families and communities the like, help each other out in all sorts of ways. I love the fact that their lives are based on what God has given them. Just about everything about them I just adore! I could live without electricity--I would miss American Idol, recharging my phone and the computer but I know for a fact that I could live without those things on a regular basis--I have done it before. I love cooking and baking--so that's not a problem. I think the only thing I wouldn't like is the dresses--I'm a jeans and T-shirt kinda girl. What about you? Would you survive if you went Amish all of a sudden? Could you survive working the land and raising "boppli" (baby in dutch) left and right and sitting in 3 hour preaching sessions?? Let me know! THis could be interesting!
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
21 Jan 09
We have many Amish in our area and while they seem self-sufficient and content, they are never especially happy. They rarely look you in the eye in public. They generally speak among themselves (rarely to strangers) in their own German (deutsch not dutch)dialect. They have various strange legalistic loop-holes depending on the particular sect that they belong to. Some have telephones in their barns but not their houses. Some have phone cards and go to payphones to make calls. Some wear all black (VERY hot in the summer)and from what I can tell, don't believe in deodorant. But..... as far as their way of life..... They have a greater respect for their elderly, the land, and simplicity. They are fantastic cooks and the women work together (our society is really missing this - women need relationships with other women) Overall, while I used to be fascinated by them, I now feel sorry for them. As a Christian, I am free from the law. I am under the law of love. Their legalism is slavery. There is no joy in legalism.
@dfollin (24172)
• United States
22 Jan 09
Come to think of it,I have never seen an Amish person smile.That is sad.
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Oh, .... I've never seen an Amish person laugh. Very sad.
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
22 Jan 09
They are friendly enough. They wave. But in general, I would call them a somber people. Too much laughter is considered silliness. It's not when I approach them. I'm a very friendly smiley person and so it's not my "approach". It's just their general behavior in public. I realize they may be guarded because they may feel under scrutiny. But they are so prevalent in the area that I don't think that's the case. I have great respect for their commitment but I really wonder about joy in their lives.
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@dfollin (24172)
• United States
21 Jan 09
It is great the way they help each other and live with what God gave them.But,I really don't know if I could survive that way.God gave his children talents and know how to make cars,computers,tv's,cell phones and so on.So therefore I do not see anything wrong with the way we live,if we have morals too.
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
21 Jan 09
You know you have a point there? We all have different talents and ways of life. Maybe you are right. I think now, that I would miss my electric. I can do without a lot of things. I have most of my life. I would miss the lights in the bathroom. I would hate to sit on a spider in the dark!! Thank you for the response!!
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@dfollin (24172)
• United States
22 Jan 09
Me too,I am allergic to spiders! God gave those talents to these people for a reason.I mean like he did not give Henry Ford the talent to make a car and then no one drive it.What sense would that make?
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
22 Jan 09
I feel you with the spiders. I have scars all over! YOu make a good point about the cars, but what I don't understand is why the amish are so against them unless it's an emergency or for work?
• United States
22 Jan 09
I could not be Amish, no offense to people who are. I love technology way too much. I love my computer, I love my television, I love comic books, I love being able to make certain choices, I love wearing t-shirts and jeans, I love rock music, I love "Heroes" (what would Mondays be like without it?), and I could not live without my bathroom (out houses are not for me). Oh, I also have allergies and asthma, there is no chance in Hell that I would survive without my medications.
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
22 Jan 09
You make really Valid points here. I love my bathroom. I actually pride myself with a spotless bathroom even though my seven year old thinks everything is a bulls-eye. With all the farm animals and fields I wouldn't blame you for staying English! Thanks for the response!
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
22 Jan 09
I don't think I would be happy living the life of the Amish. I don't like to conform all the time would not want to obey rules all the time and as a woman assume an inferior place in society. I would not like to give up education and force my sons to work on the land and deny them following their dreams. I also like the modern conveniences such as electricity and labour saving appliances such as washing machines and stoves. I would rather read a book than stand over a steaming cauldron of water with a washboard and hang out clothes with chapped red worn out hands while 5 or 6 boppli would run screaming through the house. Or maybe the children are always well behaved. I would also like to be happy once in a while and experience joy instead of doing my duty like a beast of burden. There is a large Mennonite community not too far from where I live. They are a branch of the Amish. We got to their market once in a while. The baked goods, sausages, hams, jams and jellies are wonderful. But as someone pointed out the ladies never seem to smile and to me they always look so tired and old beyond their age.
@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
22 Jan 09
I think you said it all right here. Do you think you would have had a hard time conforming to our ways if you had been raised Amish? Like I said, I have been reading on the Amish ways and have read about the kinner leaving home to see what's out there. Some tend to conform and others come home because of failure. What do you think?
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
22 Jan 09
I don't think I could. the culture shock would be too much. I'd be sitting there and everything would be - hey, there's an easier way to do this. Also, my husband would be very unhappy - he's an engineer, so he's at work right now in a place filled with incredibly complex machines.
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
22 Jan 09
Good Point! It would be hard to give up something that you have depended on to get by like the job. The education that is required for those machines would be wasted on the fields and such! Thank you!
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
21 Jan 09
I think I would find it difficult to live the Amish life. I would find it hard to live without electricity. It might sound fun for the first weeks but then it becomes annoying to stay without modern commodities. I would not mind working hard on a langd. I always enjoy the first day when i go camping but then I start missing all the luxuries that I have in my present life, electricty, my laptop etc. © ronaldinu 2009 – the more people I meet – the more I love my dog.
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
22 Jan 09
You are just like me here. I would miss all the luxeries that i have now, but then again, i have had to do without them before and think that I might be able to make it. I recently talked to an Englisher that turned Amish. He said he loved the girl but didn't want to ruffle the future in-laws feathers so he converted. He said that it took a while to get used to, but he managed just fine. I feel for him. I remember him with the prettiest blond hair, no facial hair and a little belly. Now he's trim, all the facial hair of ZZ Top and has muscles in places I didn't know men could get muscles. I think if I had to go that way or something worse, i would convert!
@sergeantrom (5721)
• United States
22 Jan 09
When I saw the Harrison Ford movie Witness, I thought the very same thing. I love working with my hands and before the internet, did a ton of reading. The only thing I hate too would be those dresses. I own one dress and never more than 5 at one time. My moms keeps giving me hers.
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@camomom (7535)
• United States
23 Jan 09
I don't know if I could or not. I like the idea of the way they live but I'm so used to technology. No heat in the winter besides fire, I don't know............
• United States
22 Jan 09
I am sure I could survive being Amish if that was all I knew and I had never been shown anything else. However I don't think if I had to do after living they way I do that I could stand it for very long. I have to have electricity and I am not one to want to wear a dress unless I have to for some reason. I enjoy my computer, my phone, and my car way to much also.
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
22 Jan 09
You make a good point. If I was born into it, I might have a hard time going English as well. Didn't think about it like that. I still argue with the dress thing. I got short legs and I'm only 4'11" and that would make for a very short Amish kid lol. Thank you for responding!