Do want your girlfriend to wear very sexy and revealing clothes?

@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
January 31, 2009 5:49am CST
There are guys who are proud when their girlfriends are wearing sexy and revealing clothes. It's added to their masculinity and they like other guys to envy them. But on the other side, there are guys who wants their girlfriends to wear conservative clothes. For them, if their girlfriends wear sexy clothes, it may just lead to trouble, it may just get attention to rude boys. How about you guys, do you prefer your girlfriends to wear sexy clothes or conservative one?
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@adoremay (2069)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I have a friend whose boyfriend always asked her to wear revealing clothes. I for one don't agree with it. We have to clothe ourselves in the manner how we like it and not because somebody asked to do it. We should be comfortable with what we are wearing.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I'm sorry but I have a feeling that her boyfriend is not serious to her. Well it's just a feeling. Lol! Oh yes, of course you should be comfortable. And I guess you would not feel comfortable if every guys who will pass your way will look at you maliciously like they are taking off your clothes on their minds. That is if you are wearing revealing clothes. Thanks for your response. Have a nice day!
@adoremay (2069)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
I am not into revealing clothing, and even if I am, the opinion of others is well taken but it could not affect me terribly. My clothing does not define my overall personality.
@nsujin (91)
• India
1 Feb 09
I don't mind what she wanting to wear. Of course every girls likes to wear mini skirts. If you are the bypasser will you stare her long. If you are a lady will u dare to wear. Can you imagine overweight lady wearing a mini skirt.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
So your point is, if she has the body and the gutts then show it. That's right. Just hoping not to encounter rude guys out there that will ruin your day. Thanks for your response. Happy myLotting!
@jambi462 (4601)
• United States
31 Jan 09
It doesn't really matter to me what my girlfriend wears because I always think that she's beautiful. I would fully respect the fact that if she wanted to show off her body then she has the rights to. I think it's good to be proud of your body and I think that if you think you got it why not flaunt it you know.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yes, if she really has the gutts and body, then why not show it. I'm sure most guys will envy you and you can't stop seeing guys looking at your girlfriend. Thanks for your response.
@donsky14 (5965)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
My boyfriend doesn't really like it when I wear mini skirts. Its not that his not proud or something...he just doesn't like it when other guys look. I really can't buy a mini skirt when his with me shopping cause he wouldn't really agree on it. lol
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I think most guys are really like that. We just want to protect our girlfriends. We just treat you girls as precious ones. Girls should be respected especially our girlfriends. Thanks for your response!
@donsky14 (5965)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I know..its like "kontra-gusto" ... I like the fact that his like that because he treats me preciously...but at the same time, I wanna wear a skirt man! lmao.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Yes, you can wear skirt, but not miniskirt. And to be sure that your boyfriend will agree with you wearing skirt, you should wear a cycling inside. Lol! But if you're not commuting or your boyfriend have a car, its fine for you to wear skirts. And as long as you are not going to a very crowded place. We are just protecting you from malicious guys out there. Have a nice day!
@Galena (9125)
1 Feb 09
this post is silly. women should wear what they choose to wear, be that revealing or less so. it's truly arrogant to say that if a woman wears revealing clothes that it adds to their masulinity. WHY? in what way does their partners choice of clothing reflect on how many or otherwise they are? the fact is, it doesn't. in fact, your line "It's added to their masculinity and they like other guys to envy them" does NOTHING for the reputation of men at all. it simply suggests that men are pathetic. and ther are a great many men out there that are not so shallow or weak as to be jealous when they see a scantily clad woman, or to think that they are more masuline if other people can see their partners body shape. this post suggests that men are weak, shallow and childish. thank the Gods that many of them are not like that.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Hi Galena! I'm sorry if you don't like the post and how the discussion is going. The two kinds of men that I mentioned are not referring to all guys in general. That is only my views and experiences. If you can see the posts of other guys here, it appears that the clothes of their girlfriends affects them. For those guys who thinks they're more masculine when they have a sexy and bodylicious girlfriend, it's just mean that they are proud. Just like for women, won't you feel proud if you have the hottest boyfriend in town? Of course the tendency for other women is to envy you. Well, I guess it's also depends on the culture. Anyway, thanks for your response. I respect your opinion.
@Galena (9125)
2 Feb 09
in all honesty I don't give any thought to what people think when they see me with my partner. he is very beautiful, but I am with him because I love him, and he is with me because he loves me. what anyone looking on thinks, it doesn't matter.
• India
31 Jan 09
i dont like my gf wearing revealing clothes when we are goint out. However, she is allowed to wear anything of her choice when she is at my home. Infact, I believe most girls do like boys who r a bit possessive.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yes, just like the thinking of most guys. Actually I can say that we guys are really possessive, well it's just because we are protecting our girlfriends. Thanks for your response. Happy myLotting!
@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
1 Feb 09
There is a bit possessive and then there is just possessive and many dont know the dirrerence.
@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
31 Jan 09
No thank you. I prefer my girlfriends in nothing at all. Sexy and revealing clothes are just a waste of time. Dress conservative while out and do not be dressed at all while at home.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Haha! Nice one! Thanks for your response!
@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
31 Jan 09
No need to tease others with what they cannot touch or have. That just isnt nice
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
when i met my wife, she was really hot.but when we became a couple, i made it clear that i want her to dress up in a conservative manner.im just trying to protect her....wearing revealing clothes might invite trouble. it was hard for her at first but she gave in to my wants.today, whenever she wear shorts outside the house, she must make sure that im with her.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Congratulations for making her changed her dress codes. It's just mean that she really loves you, and she even now your wife. Yes, we are just protecting them, coz we know what comes to guys mind whenever they see a sexy and hottie girl. Yes, we should always accompany them, especially if they're wearing something mini. Thanks for your response! Have a nice day!
@Galena (9125)
1 Feb 09
yeah, it sounds like the way she dressed before you met certainly invited trouble. like the sort of person that dictate to her what she can wear and when.
@Sydemon (119)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
i would prefer my girlfriend wearing conservative clothes cause if she wears revealing clothes guys tend to stare at her and its disturbing cause you dont know what running through thier mind
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Yes bro, that's what on our minds. We are just protecting our girlfriends. Thanks for your response!
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22 Aug 09
i love my younger wife to wear micro skirts and with no panties when we go out walking in the countryside also when we go out in the evening it really makes me feel sexy when other guys look at her she always looks good and a really sexy body with long slender legs and when we go to the beach she strips off and lays in the windbreak always leaving a wide gap towards the sea single guys walk by and get a good view and i love her with all my heart
• New Zealand
29 Nov 10
yes, well... have fun sharing your girlfriend with every guys in town! Cheers!
@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
1 Feb 09
I love it when my wife [not girlfriend] wears sexy and revealing clothings. But she only wears that type of clothing in the privacy of our home and bedroom. She doesn't wear that type of clothing outside of my presence. When she is in public, she wears more conservative clothes. I appreciate that she respects herself and me in this manner. If I she that she is wearing a low cut shirt that reveals too much cleavage, I'll simply let her know and she doesn't have a problem changing it. I don't wear any sexy tank tops or anything outside of the comfort of our home and bedroom either. I believe the other guys that have problems with this are the ones that do not have a good working or communication relationship with their girlfriends. So they just assume that the girls they are dating automatically know what they are thinking or something like that. When it is not the case. Assumptions are bad for all people across the board.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Well, you have an ideal wife, you're lucky. Yes, actually it's just a matter of understanding between the boy and the girl. There should be respect and understanding. If they really love each other, they can understand what their partners likes and dislikes and they can easily adjust to it. Actually I agree to all your points. Thanks for your response.
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@sin_nis (46)
• United States
1 Feb 09
i like my girlfriends to be friends with girls, so they can go shopping and surprise me with clothing ideas. i dont like to be the middle man, i'm pretty open to any form of kink.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Oh yes, as long as they look good it will be fine. But if it will be so mini and revealing, it will attract other guys attention, and when you're not with her, other guys may approach her. Just hoping she can't encounter a rude guy or guys that may force her to go with them.
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• United States
1 Feb 09
i dont have a girl. i wish i did though. anyways i really think that the boy friends should let them wear what they want cause they dont own them. they are not anyone's property. the girls however should know better too that wearing those type of clothes can and usually does lead to trouble. i will recommend my girl not to wear it too much and make sure its not too flashy but if she insists i cant stop her and if it leads to any trouble i will make sure to be on her side to defend her. thats the way i look at it.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
It's not owning or treating as property, it's just showing of concern. It's for their own sake. Like you, you know the consequences of wearing that kind of clothing, so why would you let your girlfriend wears that. So it appears to your opinion that what boys should do is just to ready themselves for a trouble instead of preventing it. If you let your girlfriend wears that revealing clothing and you encounter a trouble, and ended to a fight and you got bruises or even worse than that, then I guess you would regret letting her wore that clothes. Knowing that you can prevent it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I'm just also sharing my thoughts. Thank you for your response!
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@forslahiri (1042)
• India
1 Feb 09
Hi, I will prefer a conservative one..which suits her personality.Even other's gf's revealing dress-sense makes me uncomfortable. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yes, the way she dresses can also reflects her personality. I also preferred the conservative dresses for my girlfriend. Thanks for your response.
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@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
hmm... on my part if i'm a boy i really don't want my girlfriend to wear too sexy...don't want to look her like an easy to get kind of person.. my husband, when we're just in that stage boyfriend and girlfriend i use to wear something sexy but not mini skirt just a pants but the blouse is really too sexy,,other boys can't help their eyes to look, and my husband gets irritated,,that's why he ask me not to wear that blouse again.. ^_^
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Haha, you even put yourself to a boys mind. See, even you doesn't want your girlfriend to wear revealing clothes. I'm glad you know why we are not in favor of our girlfriends to wear revealing clothes. We are just avoiding troubles. Thanks for your response. Have a nice day!
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
My boyfriend doesn't want me to wear revealing clothes or fitted one because he doesn't want anyone staring at me. It's not like he is conservative, he doesn't want me to be disrespected by uneducated men. So to prevent trouble I start it to myself but there are still men who whistle or tell something or even stare as if it was their first time to see a lady. Why is it there are men who are like that?! I'm not refering to all but some.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Oh yes, that's the reason why we don't wants you to wear revealing clothes, because there are uneducated men out there who doesn't know how to respect girls. They were like that simply because they are uneducated, immoral and no etiquette. Thank you for your response! Have a nice day!
@marssky (41)
• China
1 Feb 09
I like my girl wear sexy chothes when only she and me together,I don't like she wear sexy clothes in public.It may just lead to trouble,I hate to get attention to rude boys or men.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yes, just the same thinking of most guys. Thanks for your response. Happy myLotting!
• India
1 Feb 09
Hi Friend This is choice your girlfriend what's they wear.Do't take in mind that she what wear.Why you get attention from rude boys.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yes, you girls can wear what you want but just not so revealing coz it will just give attention to other guys that may lead to trouble. Thanks for your response mahayach! Happy myLotting!
• China
1 Feb 09
I'm a girl,my ex seldom discuss the clothing problem with me,cause I am totally conservative one and only dress clothes I think comfortable.I know he want a hot girlfriend and a conservative wife future,obviously I am not the style he want at that time.finally I know he only want to feel the feelings when fall in love with different kinds of girls.So I break up with him.Girls should leave boyfriends when find not be cherished .And I hope every girl can meet the right one.
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Oh that's sad story, but I'm glad you got rid of him. Yes, you should choose the right guy. You must feel the comfort and feel cherised with him. I know your dress code will not be a problem since most guys like that kind of clothes for their girlfriend, a conservative one. Don't worry, I know you will find the right one for you. Thanks for your response. Have a nice day!
@smileonstar (4016)
• United States
31 Jan 09
My husband love me to wear sexy too but only when I got with him, and If I go anywhere alone he doesn't feel right about it. It is really depend on that person too. I Ok with sexy or not, it doesn't really matter with me
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yes, when you're wearing sexy, we should accompany you, that's the mentality of most men. Thanks for your response.