Daydreamer2: I was tired of his repeatetive actions!

Philippines
February 5, 2009 1:55am CST
When i was in high school i have this so called "Best Friend" i treat her like my little sister but she keeps on repeating the action of having multiple boyfriends both cell phone and actual relationships, in fact when we graduated one of my friends told me that he had gain 35 boyfriends for only 3 years, i was so shocked and she often cries in front of me and she always talks about boys, she has been in her comfort zone for years, she never changed. I feel so down about her and i can't forget how she make love in a rush i mean she likes playing a man's heart every time. Another thing she likes to be loved and sometimes she almost court guys and do something to make them her man for play! What do you think about her actions? can you share me your opinion?
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4 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
5 Feb 09
Hello daydreamer2! Well, it seems to me like she has problems psychologically. I mean maybe she's looking for attention of a father. Is her parents still together?
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
Actually she is only adapted and her brothers and sisters doesn't want her anymore.
• United States
6 Feb 09
Oh, maybe that's the reason why..
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
There are really some people who suffer from insecurities and would like to hide this or ease said feelings by trying to become so popular or to have many friends or even boyfriends. it could be a sort of security blanket and if your friend is such a playgirl, she might be psychologically incapacitated in one way or another. Such people should be understood and helped, not shunned or avoided. If indeed you consider her a friend then be a true friend and try to understand her and guide her and advise her. Even if she does not follow your advice, as a friend you should not abandon her. Do not stop giving her good advice and try to convince her top seek professional help.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
5 Feb 09
I think she is pretty mixed up, and you would do with finding a nice girlfriend that loves just you and nobody else.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
Hi Daydreamer2! I think that your best friend is a very insecure person who wants to always be in the center of someone's attention and affection. I am not really an expert but based in the movies I watched and books I have read (lol ), this kind of behavior is destructive and should need professional help. I just hope she would realize her behavior is really unhealthy and hopefully she will change. Take care and have a great day! lovelots..faith