What is the ugliest personality trait?

Philippines
February 7, 2009 10:17am CST
I don't know with others but for me the most ugliest personality trait is "taking someone for granted" It's just so hurtful that people do that and don't know how to appreciate. For you, what do you think it is?
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@jesssp (2743)
• Canada
7 Feb 09
I would have to say one of the worst to me is being a compulsive liar. I really hate it when people lie about everything, it gets to the point where you don't know if you can trust anything they say. It is really hard to be friends with people like that. When people twist stories around to better suit their role in them and to make others look like the villain is just frustrating and hurtful. Unfortunately I have run into my fair share of bald-faced liars and I have to say it is easily one of the worst traits.
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• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Oh, that's too bad but I'm sure everybody else have their fair share of those liars. I got this quote and it's really interesting. Let me share, it says, "a broken trust can be best describe as a crumpled piece of paper, no matter how hard you try to straighten it out, it will never return on its true form" and I think that's very true. We lose our trust to those who lied deeply with us, we can forgive but we can never get back the same trust.
@jesssp (2743)
• Canada
10 Feb 09
That's very true, what a great quote. Thanks for passing it on!
@cream97 (29175)
• United States
7 Feb 09
A female being jealous over another females complexion and length of hair. It is sad that a female can dislike another female because her hair is longer than her hair. Or, she may have long hair herself and be envious that the other female has long hair as well. And if she gets mad, because a female has a pretty complextion than she has. This is petty and ugly for an personality trait!
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• Philippines
7 Feb 09
Wow, that's so shallow for a cat fight; that's really pretty ugly. Enviousness really brings nothing but bad things.
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• United States
7 Feb 09
Great point! Jealousy in general is an ugly trait!! Instead of appreciating the beauty in others, we cut each other down. :(
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@zhuhuifen46 (3486)
• China
8 Feb 09
It is hard to say which is the uglies personality trait. Among all those bad traits, including irresponsible, over-confident, messy, rude, bad tempered, bossy, spoilt, annoying, talks too much, no humor, perfectionist, lazy, picky, bad habits, unreliable, anti-social, I feel the anti-social guys are most damaging for the harmony in a community.
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• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Yeah, anti-socials are really quite disturbing. But for me, among the list you said, I'd pick unreliable and rude to be the worst. Thanks for your respond. Stay safe.
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• Philippines
8 Feb 09
my worst and the ugliest persomality trait for me is a backstabber/plastic person. you know, when youre together you're friends and she/he is super nice to you but when you're not together she/he keeps on insulting you to other people. she/he cannot accept you for who you are.
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• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Yeah, that's definitely an awful trait. We should just ignore people like that 'cause we don't wanna get involve with their trouble.
• United States
7 Feb 09
People who fly off the handle at little things--people who are controlling, jealous. People who are liars. If you can't trust them to be truthful about small things, then what about the big things. I could go on. But those are examples of a few things I just don't dig.
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
I hate liars, too, especially habitual liars. Trust is everything and if you lose trust to a person, things really get ugly.
• United States
7 Feb 09
I think selfishness is a really ugly personality trait, but I also think that relates to taking someone for granted. People who are only focused on themselves cant take the time to appreciate anyone else in their life. Sadly, it seems that the most unselfish people always seem to get stepped all over by the selfish ones. :(
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• Philippines
7 Feb 09
That's the harsh reality but it's better to stay unselfish than being a selfish one because eventually selfish people are the ones that's being left out because their ugly trait. They won't realize that until such time comes and when it happen, it's just too late.
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• Canada
8 Feb 09
There are a few personality traits that I find "ugly"... selfishness, dishonesty and distrust are among them. I also agree that taking someone for granted is VERY hurtful... but I liken this to being selfish because a selfish person will always put themselves first - at the expense of everyone else around them. It's really not an attractive trait to possess :\
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• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Yeah, it was some kinda selfishness. I've experienced that, being taken for granted. I was so hurt but I learned my lesson to it. Just so sad that some people doesn't have consideration.
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• United States
10 Feb 09
Being ungrateful! That, IMHO, is the worst trait ever!
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Yeah, that's pretty ugly.
@ljbinkop (744)
• United States
23 Mar 09
For me the worst personality trait that someone can have is being dishonest! I cannot stand people who can't tell the truth, and you just can't trust a person who you think is lying to you. I come across people like this in life all too often, but once a person has lied to me (especially if it was something big!) I can never fully trust them again. Once a liar...
@aileen18 (170)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
for me, someone who stabbs you at the back..a traitor to be exact. i pitty those people who have a traits like this because they do not know what they are loosing.