My boyfriend told me he had a child ONE YEAR later after we met....

November 9, 2006 5:06pm CST
Hello.... I come from Sweden and I live with a boyfriend from Maroco. We have a son on 3 month together. Me and my boyfriend met eachother one year and three months ago. we had a bad relationship. Problems with money. He like to spend everything and i like to SAVE money. AND... AFTER ONE YEAR WHEN HE GOT PERMIT IN SWEDEN HE TELLS ME HE HAS ONE MORE KID.... what would you do in my sittuation? Is it possible that he is married? The childs mother is marocain like my boyfriend. My boyfriend stayd in Italy in 10 years and had permit in Italy, but after some problems there he was not allowed to keep his recidence-permit. Allthoug he came to Sweden and met me. He was there elligal when he was in the SCHENGEN-register (red.) I guess its more intressting for a marocain to get paper in EU. Therefore I think he is allready married in Maroco and want to take his family to EU (sweden.) The reason is because they put him out. What he told me about his old relationship was that they had much problems together. She moved with another man in Italy when he was away from the family... The woman has no recidence-permit in Italy... I guess they want to get married and move to Sweden. Content: he just used me to get recidence-permit... tell me about this problen in US... I guess it happen often there.... And what do you think about my case?
3 responses
@rusty2rusty (6766)
• Defiance, Ohio
18 Nov 06
Yes, it does happen in the USa. I know very well the alot illegals here will pay an American just to marry them. Than you go your way and they go theirs. Just so they can then bring their families to the USA illegally. Well,they come on a visa but never leave.
@KrauseHome (35517)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I am sure it happens everywhere, and I have heard of it happening in the US, where someone gets Married to someone to find out later they were Married to someone else in their native country, and just never had the money to divorce them, or just wanted a chance at a better life, and you find out theu were sending money home to the husband instead of the family as they originally stated. I guess you just hope from the start when you meet someone from another country or get involved with them, they are telling you the Truth, and you will not find out something different later.
@sedel1027 (17854)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I know it can happen in the US even though it is not suppose to. I have heard stories about people getting married just to stay in the US or having a baby in the US because that child is a US citizen. Is there anyone you can report him to that can take away his residency?