to be like by others
By willy6
@willy6 (498)
Jamaica
February 13, 2009 7:52pm CST
I know that not everybody will be like, because whatever some people does they will always be hated by some people. But I think one can enhance their personality in a positive manner that they will be a good company. first I think one should learn to love them self, because if you like your self one wont be so insecure. take care of your appearance, practice good hygene. That is one of the thing that turn off a lot of people. Have a loving and peaceful spirit. I belive if one personally is intact they people will like to be around them, because they will be irrestible.
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3 responses
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
14 Feb 09
I think people appreciate a genuine person. So be yourself. I also believe that everyone should be compassionate and practice unconditional love. Though, I agree at times that is difficult to do.
@sonusd (1545)
• India
14 Feb 09
Ya you are right first of all we have to love our selve,i am always thinking negative about my self so i am not able to happy with anything i am getting i know i am the reason behind it but do not change it and my this habit is not accepted by my friends because i am a irritate nature person
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
Perhaps good etiquette too could help others to like you, not overbearing, trying to be conscious or sensitive of what others would feel, smiling often without asking for anything in return.
Though as you said, loving yourself would be a good step, however, loving yourself too much (to the point of stepping on others conveniences) could prove to be fatal in relationships too.
A good balance of everything is needed.
But remember, you can't please everyone, and trying to please everyone would only lead you to more misery and self doubt.
So, put a smile on your face and try to go through life without grudges.
Good luck!
Happy Valentine's Day!
