Today I am very SAD.....

India
February 17, 2009 8:58am CST
Please tell me the soution how could I get rid off from this problem.My sister start telling lies.It's disgusting.She not even speak truth to me,but she also tell me lies. She just share her feelings with her friends only.Now How could i take my sister close to me.
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@ersmommy1 (12605)
• United States
17 Feb 09
The decision to be close to you is hers. You cannot force it. All you can do is let her know that you are there for her.Hopefully she will decide that she wants to be friends and siblings.
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• India
20 Feb 09
yeah from today she starts talking me nice in a lovely and cute manner as like a sister.
17 Feb 09
Hey man! This is a difficult one. Not knowing either of yourselves so well, I could only suggest you tell her how sad it makes you AND that it makes a distance between you. Maybe tell her, if she carries on like this, she will sacrifice a great deal - lies may bring a short term benefit, but especially between family and friends, in the longer term, it's just not worth it. Hope she sees some sense soon. Take care.
• India
20 Feb 09
yeah from today she starts talking me nice in a lovely and cute manner as like a sister.
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23 Feb 09
That's good to hear. Was it because she realised how much hurt she was causing you or after you had talked to her? Anyway, that's great that you are both closer again.
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
4 Mar 09
O[i]hh..this is tough. I guess first thing is you will not force her, just be supportive and sympathize her and once you will get her trust I am sure she will start talking to you! But, once she will see or feel that you are demanding something, the more she will stew back... ABout lies, just tell her to be honest and maybe she is scared to you or what[/i]!
• India
5 Mar 09
Yeah I think so she would fells my emotions and try to understand me.