i feel so guilty....

@maissj (111)
Philippines
February 18, 2009 11:10pm CST
my husband and i were married for almost 5 years now, and we are happy and still in love with each other, my husband is a very wonderful guy, understanding and thoughtful and he's always trying his best to make me happy, but these past few days, i am so grouchy, maybe its the time of the month, or i'm just tired, but whatever the reason of my being to grouchy, i feel so guilty that i am, inspite of his being to good to me. Aside from the fact that i am 7 years older than him, i think i should be the matured one, but no, he is far more matured than i am.... what do you think i can do to make it up to him... i am really sooooo guilty, help!
6 responses
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
Please be mature in this situation..it's just normal to act guilty because you are worth for it..i feel pity with your husband..he deserved a wife who is understanding and who could return back the love that he was showing..i think there's something wrong/problem to you and you have to consult this to nearest guidance counselor...inorder it will gives you some options or suggestion for you to change your attitude...
@maissj (111)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
first of all, i am guilty as it is, but i am not nuts! i am asking for an advice on how to make it up to him, not for an advice on how to cure myself of any defects. i am not always like this to him, a lot of times we are like honeymooners that my son gets jealous of him, i think you didn't read what i posted or you just misunderstood my post. but thanks anyway...i know you mean well, i really love my husband and i think i'm right when i said it's THAT time of the month....smile!
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
i agree with dodo19... i also feel the same way...my hubby is so nice and loved me so much.. but i easily got irritated in a small thing. so what i did, i posted a comment in his site where everyone could see how much i love and care for him, that im sorry for the things i did.
@maissj (111)
• Philippines
21 Feb 09
i did that too, i always post messages and comments on his friendster site and i think he appreciated those little things i do for him, and i talked to him about it too, i explained to him that i am just human and i easily gets tired these days, i think he understood and i really appreciate that he did... thanks!
@neknna (63)
19 Feb 09
oh poor guy. he don't deserve such attitude from you right. You should make it up to him. Made him feel you're sorry and made him feel also that he has much love from you. Do everything to make him happy.
@maissj (111)
• Philippines
21 Feb 09
i know he doesn't deserve that kind of treatment, but i am just too tired of taking care of the house and of our little boy that it really takes a toll on my sanity, making me grouchy at the end of the day, and you're right, i should trry to be more patient and show him the love he deserved.... thank you!
@vera5d (4006)
• United States
19 Feb 09
I think the best thing to do is just say I'm sorry I've been a rotten grouch, what can I do for you? :) All of us go through crabby times - being able to recognize you've been crabby and see what your partner needs can usually help!
• China
19 Feb 09
Don't be too worried about it .Just take it easy .Everyone will have a awkward time ,you know .They will feel upset ,worried .Don't take it seriously . What you have to do is to have a good nap and to cook for your husband and then say "i love you "to him ! You will be happy with your husband ,don't worry !
@dodo19 (33320)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
19 Feb 09
I know how you feel. i love my fiance and he's a great guy, but like you, I've been very grouchy, and would get easily irritable. Like you, I feel guilty about it. One thing that I think you should try is to at least talk to him, and let him know how you feel. Let him understand that you love him, and that he's not to blame. I think that this might help. I wish I could help you out more, but I'm unsure what more to say.